jassy Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 I'm 19 weeks preg & it's been rough. We broke up in Oct & at 1st we was arguing a lot, but around November it stopped. We agreed 2 work it out as friends & try 2 be rebuild. Lately he's been back & forth though. 1 minute he wants 2 work it out, next he doesn't. Him & I both went home Dec 20 for the holiday & since he's been mean, rude, ignorant, & insensitive. 2 the point that I cry. We would talk like everyday & always ended in me crying. Jan 3 was our last time speaking & the day he returned back 2 work. I was suppose 2 go back that same day but didn't. So this is the longest we ever went without talking. Usually I'll call/text him, but I'm just tired of it. Surprisingly, he randomly txtd me this morning surprisingly sounding kind of nice saying "Good Morning. I just want 2 know when are your appointments". I didn't reply because every time I talk 2 him it goes bad & 2. he NEVER comes 2 my appointments. I also figured he only textd me because I haven't texted/called him in a few days & he sees I'm not at work either. Later he txts me "if it's going 2 be like that when I want 2 know about my child then I'll see u in court" Y bring up court just because I didn't reply back!? I told him I would never take his baby from him. Is he just really looking for a reaction just 2 talk 2 me? (They say the best way 2 get someone's attention is 2 show them no attention. So I go a few days without talking 2 him & now he wants 2 know my appointment schedule when he never cared before) I just don't like the games. Y is he acting this way?
Lizzay03 Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 He seems childish and immature... he isn't acting like the grown man he should be by now I mean come on now he's about to be a dad. Let him know where your appointments are even if he doesn't show up so there won't be any complications or he won't feel like you're ignoring him and not wanting to make him a part of your child's life
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