unagedtiger Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 What is the best thing to do when the date is irritated, not by me, but by her work? Today's conversation wasn't as friendly I can clearly tell the difference in tone. But I didn't cause her to act that way. I assume the best to do is leaver her alone and let her get rest? Me trying to cheer up will worsen things, correct? I've had a past experience where the date was irritated from something else but I worsened it by being around while she was and being associated with it. Any ideas? Thanks.
bubbaganoosh Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 Yeah, I dated a woman a few years ago and as soon as I picked her up I could tell she was in a bad mood. I thought that maybe going out would help but twenty minuets in while we were diving, I finally turned around took her back. When she saw what I was doing, she asked me what was up and I told her that I planned on a nice evening and in order to do that, it has to be the two of us talking and since she hasn't said one word and looked like she was ready to bite someones head off, I didn't want it to be mine, so I dropped her off and told her that when she was cooled down to call me. She did later that night but what bothered me was that if she wasn't in the mood, then she should have told me before I showed up because it now ruined my evening.
sagetalk Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 Any ideas? If she was with Brad Pitt, do you think she would be acting like that? The answer is no. If she is already acting like this in the first few encounters, then run for your life. She is not that crazy about you, but she could settle for you. What a nightmare.
Author unagedtiger Posted January 8, 2014 Author Posted January 8, 2014 If she was with Brad Pitt, do you think she would be acting like that? The answer is no. If she is already acting like this in the first few encounters, then run for your life. She is not that crazy about you, but she could settle for you. What a nightmare. It was over a call.
sagetalk Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 It was over a call. Doesn't change anything unless you two have been dating for awhile. How long have you been dating?
Author unagedtiger Posted January 8, 2014 Author Posted January 8, 2014 Doesn't change anything unless you two have been dating for awhile. How long have you been dating? Weeks. This was the first unfriendly.
sagetalk Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 Weeks. This was the first unfriendly. Not long enough, I'd bail. But it's your future. Tell her it bothered you, and you don't want to be treated that way. If she genuinely apologizes, and drops the behavior, then I'd give her another shot. If she gets angry when you mention that it bothers you, hit the exit button.
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