Mrlonelyone Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 It has now been six months since I last saw her, and seven since we were last together at all. I have moved, and moved on, and I know this is really probably the best thing for everyone. She was and is young and more like Miley Cyrus with more sense and less fame right now. She is young and needs to enjoy life and growing through that stage from 20 to 25. She too will soon move, and move on to God knows where. It was inevitable. Plus I would never want to interfere with her development as a scientist which a super serious relationship at her age probably would. When I meet someone new they take my mind off her for a while but I keep coming back to thoughts of her. This very time last year my father just about died, and she was there for me. This year everyone is healthy. I can either be in crisis and have someone to hold my hand or no crisis and no hand. I just wish I could be blown away again and feel what I felt again sooner rather than latter. Yet this time with someone really ready to have the kind of relationship I want, the kind that last decades.
Grumpybutfun Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Working through the end of relationships is never easy even if we know it is for the best. You just hang in there and keep talking about it. You have good insight and will be very successful in a relationship one day. It will pass, and one day you will be grateful for the knowledge this relationship gave you so you will be better prepared for the right person when she appears. G 2
Author Mrlonelyone Posted January 7, 2014 Author Posted January 7, 2014 Working through the end of relationships is never easy even if we know it is for the best. You just hang in there and keep talking about it. You have good insight and will be very successful in a relationship one day. It will pass, and one day you will be grateful for the knowledge this relationship gave you so you will be better prepared for the right person when she appears. G I hope you are right. I just did the math. Ours was basically a workplace relationship...yet we had no fixed hours and could spend as much time together (not) working as we wanted. It was about 6 hours per day, 5 days a week, for eight months. if the average couple went on 3, 4 hour long dates per week, for 80 weeks (1.5 years) they would have as much time in as I did. Met and liked her family and vice versa. So as it has only been six months... it will be three more months before it really feels like I've been out of it 1/2 the time I was in it. If I thought she wanted to try again and really work at it I would still be open to trying. In six months I've done but I haven't done better or even half as good.
Author Mrlonelyone Posted January 8, 2014 Author Posted January 8, 2014 6 hours out of our 12 hour days, together. The thing is, right after it was over I was a bit relieved . Now 6 months out, when alone with my thoughts I think of our times. I will probably never meet someone who gets what I do the way she does.
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