JLOW888 Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 after i stopped seeing my gf about a week. i have tried to keep no contact i was successful from Thursday til Monday when i text her asking if some of the things she told people about us and her feelings were true, she said she had told a limited number of people, but i found out she was lying, this really really annoyed me so my friend tweeted a picture of me kissing a girl in town at the weekend (i thought it would make me feel better it didnt) i heard today she didnt care about it but i know she does care, she's a year younger than me and is being pretty immature about the whole situation. But it didnt stop how i still feel about her. This afternoon i text her asking her to stop being so public about the whole situation and my feelings towards her, she has read and not replied, now i really dont know what to do. I want her back but i know i need to keep NC, then i'm worried she never cared atall, and im scared il never talk or see her again. I just don't know what to do ..
mantlefan Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 If she can't decide on her own that you are worth it, then she is not worth it for you. Keep NC. If you need to hope she comes back, that's OK. But keep NC until you are sure you no longer want her back. And if, before then, she wants to get back with you, ask yourself if that's what you really want. But for your own health and sanity man, go NC. No matter what, unless she is literally on fire and you are the only person with a bucket of water. Take it from a guy who didn't keep NC, and it only made things worse for me, her, and our friends. I can't take back what I did, but I can do the right thing moving forward. So can you. For both of us, that is NO CONTACT. You don't have to agree with me or trust me. I know that sounds dumb. I wish I would have trusted the people on here 5 months ago. I am healing, but I would be so much better if I had kept NC. If she is talking bad about you, etc., telling her not to probably will only make her want to do it more. No Contact. If not for yourself, do it for me so that my mistake can mean something
Author JLOW888 Posted January 7, 2014 Author Posted January 7, 2014 I will keep NC, all i have done to go back to how i felt a week ago when we broke up. Such a bad mistake!
Fufu Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 Break up s*cks our life literally... (But thank goodness it's literally and not for real) Your ex doesn't care anymore... she has left.. choose/made the decision on her own to leave. Doesn't matter, move on, work on yourself. Be happy and eventually when you are ready for the next relationship, you will be.
strive Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 You say she's being petty and immature, but you're doing the same. Posting a picture of you kissing another girl just to get a reaction from her is is not a good move. Games are for kids. You should both do a bit of growing up first.
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