Mr Spock Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 Does he make you want to rip his clothes off in public? It's good for you to sort out your emotions. I don't really know what to suggest, maybe a couple of weeks where you don't see each other and then try hanging out again?
Author _Saffy_ Posted January 13, 2005 Author Posted January 13, 2005 i havent physically seen him for almost two years spock, we spend all of our time either on msn or texting, throughout the day, or talking for several hours most nights. as for the ripping clothes off thing.....no, but i do find him extremely attractive...both mentally and physically....and im old enough and knowledgeable enough to know that its the mental thing that is the key to making it work. i have just come out of a relationship that had the ripping clothes off in public factor, in fact we did so i know how good that can be, but it doesnt have to be there does it?
Mr Spock Posted January 13, 2005 Posted January 13, 2005 It should be....always nice to fall in love with someone who has it otherwise you could run into trouble down the road when you meet the one who DOES. Otherwise, I'd train myself to be a lesbian.
Author _Saffy_ Posted January 13, 2005 Author Posted January 13, 2005 hahahahha, i have seriously thought about trying women just lately, think im gonna give it a miss though ok, i guess for now im just gonna carry on with things as they are......i think everything that needed to be said has been said. hes told me how he feels, and that hes not going to act on it ~ for now! and i told him that im not ready for a relationship.....and the fact that he told me that he would take the chance on whether it would be with him, tells me that he knows it might not be. i havent given any false hope, and i wouldnt do that. gonna just have to see what happens i guess.
SuperFantastico Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 Well its ok if its just gonna be a fling. Funny thing about them is sometimes those pesky emotions can rear thier ugly head. My stance on dating someone who is cheating on someone else with you is a big fat no......if you really like them. Otherwise FWB or just a fun casual relationship is ok. And in this case he is cheating with you on someone who is cheating on someone else. Now i dont know what to say here. Seems like one of those movie stories.
Author _Saffy_ Posted January 18, 2005 Author Posted January 18, 2005 not sure if you read all this, but he isnt cheating on me at all, im not currently involved with him or anyone else. the bit you are referring to happened just under two years ago, so your comment isnt really accurate. and my question was simply "what does he want".......i also stated several times during this post that i have no intention of getting involved with him, but guess you overlooked all the vital information.
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