Gallaxia Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 So, it's pretty much over. Little things had been adding up that I was being rather patient about but the icing on the cake was when he decided to do a last minute guys trip snd didn't tell or say anything to me. He came back and was messaging me a lot trying to get my attention. I was irritated by the lack of communication so I backed off to cool down. Before I got a chance to even address it- HE stopped all communication. I asked him if he was done and he just said "Sorry. Been real busy. Have a good day:)". I gave it another few days & said hi again. We're both on a social media site & I saw he posted about going on business overseas so I asked him. He was short with me "Yeah travelling tomorrow AND I'm going overseas in a few months, Have a good New Year's" (it was NYE day). Next thing I know- he flipped out on the site and has been posting really mean messages on and off since then about not having support & REAL friends etc etc. Frankly I'm mortified at how he's acting right now. To my knowledge I haven't done anything. NYE day was the last time we actually spoke and we used to talk all the time nonstop via text at work when we weren't hanging out at his place. The last time we slept together we were really drunk and I alllmost said "ILY" and he kept saying "Say it. Just go ahead and say it". Si I really care(d) about him. I'm just really hurt & confused. WTH just happened? Why are people so mean?
soccerrprp Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 So, it's pretty much over. Little things had been adding up that I was being rather patient about but the icing on the cake was when he decided to do a last minute guys trip snd didn't tell or say anything to me. He came back and was messaging me a lot trying to get my attention. I was irritated by the lack of communication so I backed off to cool down. Before I got a chance to even address it- HE stopped all communication. I asked him if he was done and he just said "Sorry. Been real busy. Have a good day:)". I gave it another few days & said hi again. We're both on a social media site & I saw he posted about going on business overseas so I asked him. He was short with me "Yeah travelling tomorrow AND I'm going overseas in a few months, Have a good New Year's" (it was NYE day). Next thing I know- he flipped out on the site and has been posting really mean messages on and off since then about not having support & REAL friends etc etc. Frankly I'm mortified at how he's acting right now. To my knowledge I haven't done anything. NYE day was the last time we actually spoke and we used to talk all the time nonstop via text at work when we weren't hanging out at his place. The last time we slept together we were really drunk and I alllmost said "ILY" and he kept saying "Say it. Just go ahead and say it". Si I really care(d) about him. I'm just really hurt & confused. WTH just happened? Why are people so mean? How long had you two been dating? People become mean b/c there are mean people. I know I know, how obvious of a response....you saw a side of him that you wouldn't have if this hadn't occurred. When people get pissed, don't get their way, the stress and anxiety reveals a side of them that is very much a part of who they are and will always be. Oftentimes it is negative. Has he ever said to you that he loved you? The ILY thing is interesting. He insisted, goated you to say it, but you resisted. Interesting indeed. I'm sorry, but that sounds like someone who is eager to attain emotional advantage of his/her partner. Of course, I wasn't there, but in the end, you did not say it....most interesting and better for you.
Author Gallaxia Posted January 7, 2014 Author Posted January 7, 2014 Thanks soccerrprp. We've known each other since September. Started dating in October. I won't say that I am actually in love with him, cuz we were still getting to know each other.That's why I couldn't say ILY. But I did like him a lot. Plus the alcohol was trying to get me to say it. Regardless, the sex (still) ranks pretty high up on my list so I got caught up in the moment and almost said it. Anyway, I see him posting... Still no contact...
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