blombox Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 I just came out of a really emotional breakup. There where times that we loved eachother so much we wanted to grow old together, and die together. We where only together for 2,5 years. When you have been trough this kind of love, will you be able to love again like this? I'm scared I will never love anyone the way I loved this person. Even though it did not work out. Anyone been trough this?
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 I was asking myself this when my break up happened but now I have met someone else who I really like and can definitely see myself falling for him big time and I also think the relationship would be better in many ways so YES is my answer but it is hard to see that when u are fresh from a break up x My first true love passed away and I didnt think I would ever love again and I did so never give up x
Philosoraptor Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 I was in a 5 year relationship that ended. Had a house together, were engaged, and had obvious future plans. It ended and I felt horrible. I healed up and allowed myself to move on. Now I'm getting married to the most amazing woman 6/21/14. I love her not just as much, but much more than I ever loved my ex. Things are just easy and come natural. But you must allow yourself to heal before you can ever find happiness in a relationship again. 2
RDawg Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Of course you can.. Mr Raptor, congrats on your impending nuptuals.. Regarding the timing of our next great love after being heartbroken: do we really have to wait until we are fully healed? I think I am falling for someone I have known for a long time.. but I am only 3.5 months post BU from a 2.5 year relationship and obviously still a bit of a mess.. so does one wait or make a move before the opportunity passes??
Philosoraptor Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Thank you. One would be best to not get serious until you are fully healed. You put yourself at greater risk of rebounding and sabotaging a new relationship by not being over the ex. Put yourself in this persons shoes... would you like them to still have feelings for the ex when they are courting you? 1
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