Murtz Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Do not reply, she needs time to miss you. Do not reply till she calls you and wants to get back together.
SatcNyC Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Hang in there. Im currently In the NC phase of my breakup. I finally had to tell him never to call or text me and went further to ask that he not reply to any of my texts or calls. I tried the friend thing post breakup but being the dumpee, my feelings were still strong and made it miserable. I think of him everyday. I want to call or text even Skype but I know its a repetitive cycle. He's made it clear that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and as much as it hurts I have to keep reminding myself that this is what is best. I have to admit though, the idea that NC means I wont get him back scares me. I was hoping the opposite...I guess with enough time my feelings will change and it wont matter anymore. We're in the same boat, hang in there.
Author wordisbond Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 gonna let you all down and let you know i replied before reading these responses, but thank you for them they make alot of sence too me. i replied just being civil and kind of nice... i just responded to her messages for about 4 messages answering her texts but i didn't ask her a single question or anything about her or bring up any emotions or any of that. she asked me how soccer was n that was about it i said it was alright. then i waited for her to keep the convo going but it never happened finally grew some balls n deleted my facebook too
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