Chi townD Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 I see it as "the woman who tore my heart to shreds and left me a wreck does not even have enough respect for me to abide by the only request I ever made of her - that under no circumstances whatsoever is she to ever contact me IN ANY REGARD, unless that contact is to say 'I made a mistake and want you back'". Dude, I seriously doubt that she was stalking you with the intention of running into you in the middle of a crowded city for the mere chance to say, "Hi OD!" to you. I believe that she was honoring your request, but it was a weird happenstance that she ran into you. But, did you ever consider this? You stated you said "Hi" back without even knowing who she was at first. Even though you said "Hi" your facial expressions probably said more than that. She probably saw the confusion on who you were saying "hi" too. She probably saw that you were trying to work it out in your head who this person was. Don't you think that if there was an immediate recognition, she would have opened more of a dialog? Even though you state that you're hurting, I think you might have hurt her more. The reason I say this is because, she knew exactly who you were and you didn't know who she was at first. So, what does that tell her? That you didn't realize that this person was a person you had a strong loving connection with at one time. You showed her that you've moved on. Therefore, no further conversation was needed. 1
Author Ordinaryday Posted January 9, 2014 Author Posted January 9, 2014 Dude, I seriously doubt that she was stalking you with the intention of running into you in the middle of a crowded city for the mere chance to say, "Hi OD!" to you. I believe that she was honoring your request, but it was a weird happenstance that she ran into you. But, did you ever consider this? You stated you said "Hi" back without even knowing who she was at first. Even though you said "Hi" your facial expressions probably said more than that. She probably saw the confusion on who you were saying "hi" too. She probably saw that you were trying to work it out in your head who this person was. Don't you think that if there was an immediate recognition, she would have opened more of a dialog? Even though you state that you're hurting, I think you might have hurt her more. The reason I say this is because, she knew exactly who you were and you didn't know who she was at first. So, what does that tell her? That you didn't realize that this person was a person you had a strong loving connection with at one time. You showed her that you've moved on. Therefore, no further conversation was needed. thank you, that is a unique perspective on things. I just don't want her thinking things are 'cool' between us and that we are all buddy buddy pal pal again, but I suppose there is nothing one could gauge from a simple 'hi', and the truth is I don't know how she took it. maybe she did not care less. or maybe she is beating herself up and crying over why I did not try to say more to her or ask her how she is going or tell her that my life is empty without her. who knows? thank you for this unique perspective.
Itspointless Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 Learn some EFT Taping... Google it/YouTube it. Good tip, Eft Tapping is also used when people have PSD. It really is helpful and simple to do.
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