emceelaszlo Posted January 9, 2005 Posted January 9, 2005 I told her that i liked her. She wasnt odd about it but didnt respond and say I like u 2, she said i like being with you too. we are still going to hang out, going to the movies in a week, should i keep trying to pursue this, i mean she never said, No i dont like u and nothing will ever happen. A friend said after the movie i should go in for a kiss, but i feel it would be uncomfortable, and i'm unsure of her feelings. So........?
uriel Posted January 9, 2005 Posted January 9, 2005 Next time you are hanging out and the moment seems right, say, "When I told you I liked you, you said you liked hanging out, too. Does that mean just friends or...?" Leave the "or" hanging and let her fill in the blank. I agree with you that going in for a kiss would be too awkward. You need clarification. -- uriel
Author emceelaszlo Posted January 9, 2005 Author Posted January 9, 2005 http://www.urbandictionary.com type in love. now i know its a very scary word that should not b toyed with, but this definition fits exactly how i feel, how do i relate that, i think LIKE is such a petty word, but i dont want to spring love upon her, I have known her for 2 years, and weve been frined in that time so i dont think its a premature conclusion, i want to relate my feelings w/o scaring her or coming off as weird, shes chill so i think it would go over maybe ok, but still....
7on Posted January 10, 2005 Posted January 10, 2005 yeah, not to mention men tend to fall in love sooner than the women. Start holding her hand and stuff too. If she minds, then you can tell. Or you can just ask her.
Author emceelaszlo Posted January 17, 2005 Author Posted January 17, 2005 So we went out and i followed the prompt that uriel gave me... thanks, and she responded that she is just a friend, and that she was actually seeing her ex-boyfriend from high school. I dont know why but after i heard this i felt a huge burden had been lifted from my shoulders, its the oddest feeling but i feel better now that i know. Thanks 7on and uriel for your words
SuperFantastico Posted January 18, 2005 Posted January 18, 2005 Probably for the fact you were stressing about making 'the move' and how she felt about you. Now you are free from all these things, and its a relief. Makes sense. Whats with the friggn ex's anyway. Why cant they just stay EX!!!
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