Is she flaking me for real?

[swordsmen121]

I met this woman whom agreed to have coffee and things went fine and then we went to a hookah lounge right after in the same night. The night went great. We even held hands and she even rested her head over mine. However, throughout the night I noticed that I was doing most of the talking and she seemed a bit silent. She just said she is a bit cautious and has learned from past experiences.

 

Anyways before the night ends we agreed on a second date a few days later. Night before the second date, we talked on the phone for a bit and she said she appears to be getting a little sick (I started getting bad vibes). I said well I guess you'll know for sure how you'll feel tomorrow.

 

Next day comes and not surprisingly she calls me and tells me shes been getting headaches all day and she has to cancel until the next weekend (a week later). I'm like thats fine we can reschedule than. She couldn't schedule during the week because she works fulll time and has to take care of her daughter when she comes home in the evening.

 

I call the next night just to see how shes doing and all. The conversation went great. But then all of a sudden shes like hold on. There was silence on her end for nearly like 15 mins. She comes back telling me hey can I call you later? Im like sure but is everything alright? Shes like yea Ill call you later. And she never returned my call after.

 

I know Im talking to her alot and that I need to back off a little. But I'm just being sincere as possible and not trying to come across as needy in anyway. I do know now that I definitely need to back off and wait for her to call me. However, I'm just uncertain about everything now. Has she lost interest? Or is she flaking out for real?

[winny]

Wow she kept u waiting for 15 mins!!!

Just don't contact her .. She's taking u for granted.

 

Let her come back to u.

And please don't be so nice n caring. Most people don't value it n start treating u like doormat...