niyathi Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 This is getting too much..I really wanna forget my ex but things are just not in my favor! I had decided to not stay in contact with him at all and now my friends are planning a reunion where he is gonna come too!! I refused to go giving other excuses and now all are angry. But I don't have the strength to see him again and recall all the old memories which is gonna hurt me. He is in my mind during day and I'm getting his dreams at night!! I don't wanna dream of him..it's really irritating that I'm tryin to forget a person and he keeps coming In my dreams and spoiling my entire day! Am I never gonna move on?? Is there no way I can forget him!? What is my fault in all this that I have no peace of mind, no peaceful sleep and he is just enjoying life..my fault was that I loved someone truly?! All this seems so unfair..I'm hating life! This is so much to handle along with work and studies and now my friends who are mad at me for not joining them in the reunion..why don't they understand that I need time to be strong enough to face that guy and it's too soon now to meet him..why can't anyone understand my feelings?
flightplan Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 No way in hell I would go. The friends are the one's that are going to have to suck it up. They'll get over it. There's always an understanding aunt somewhere in the crowd. Anyway, take care of yourself and follow the NC recipe. It'll work, just give it time. Someone once said, "If you're going through hell, keep going." 3
LostConfused123 Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 No way in hell I would go. The friends are the one's that are going to have to suck it up. They'll get over it. There's always an understanding aunt somewhere in the crowd. Anyway, take care of yourself and follow the NC recipe. It'll work, just give it time. Someone once said, "If you're going through hell, keep going." I totally agree!! Absolutely NO WAY!!! I would be a little miffed at my friends for such an outrageous suggestion. Seriously, when I get over this and completely forget about what's his name, I hope I remember to always be sensitive to the friends and people on this horrific journey. ((Hugs!!)) 1
strive Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Explain to your friends that it's hard for you to do that. They should be able to understand if they're good friends. If they don't then they're not worth it. Dump them too. 3
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