firefly2613 Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Yes, of course I am angry at her for throwing us away and marrying the new go so quickly, especially when we were about to take that step, and for her lying. Slightly angry at him for swooping in, but not really that much. Mostly I am angry at myself. It has been four months. She had no trouble moving on and doing it in a big way. I am SICK of crying over someone who is long gone. Someone who probably does not think about me. I am just so aggravated at myself for being here. I am ready to move on - so freaking ready.
fixing Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 You cant be angry at yourself man, its not your fault. You got dealt a ****ty hand, you played it the best you could and you still lost the draw. She maybe happy, and you will be too. Its like the race track on the Olympics, she's in the near line, nice little headstart right now but you will pass her on the outside lane soon sir, most def! Give it time, and dont be hard on yourself, four months isnt enough time. 2
whichwayisup Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Lighten up on yourself! All you're doing is making yourself feel worse. Let yourself grieve the loss. It takes a lot of time ,especially since this woman hurt you so badly. You have every right to feel angry, upset, betrayed, played, etc etc! This is a whole process and it takes time to work through it all. Now, if you're in this exact state a year or 2 years from now, I'd suggest counseling, but right now you're where you're supposed to be all things considering. 2
ponchsox Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 You have a right to be angry. But now is the time to forgive yourself and move on. 2
Author firefly2613 Posted January 7, 2014 Author Posted January 7, 2014 I feel like I'm right on the edge of actually moving on. It's so annoying that something is holding me back.
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