freetolove Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 I've been seeing this guy for 6 week and we adore each other. For some odd reason I had a sudden urge to date other people (there's no one in mind). I'm in 30s and he's early 40s so we're pass the games etc. It's been a while since I've been in a relationship so I don't exactly want to screw things up. It's still early enough where I can just bail and go back to my life style (casual dating). I've been looking for a LTR for a while and I finally met this guy who I really enjoy the company of. I'm not use to having one person control so much of my feelings/desires. Suggestions/thoughts?
odin673 Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 You should probably let him go. Work on yourself and figure out why you're addicted to the novelty of casual dating. Maybe not date at all for a while. 1
winny Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Just hang on and let this desire pass. It might go away as suddenly as it came. Make a list of pros and cons of serious relationship vs. casual dating. This might give you a clarity of thoughts.
SYLLPalmer Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 I've been seeing this guy for 6 week and we adore each other. For some odd reason I had a sudden urge to date other people (there's no one in mind). I'm in 30s and he's early 40s so we're pass the games etc. It's been a while since I've been in a relationship so I don't exactly want to screw things up. It's still early enough where I can just bail and go back to my life style (casual dating). I've been looking for a LTR for a while and I finally met this guy who I really enjoy the company of. I'm not use to having one person control so much of my feelings/desires. Suggestions/thoughts? I get this bug. For me there is a underlying question that digs at me. Could be I am scared of being abandoned or could be that he is not giving me what I need or want. Ultimately I think of branching out because it gives me back control. I don't act on this **** anymore. Life is too short and people, good people, are too hard to find. You gotta have a talk with yourself. You gotta grow up. 2
Author freetolove Posted January 7, 2014 Author Posted January 7, 2014 This rings really true =) Thanks for this! I get this bug. For me there is a underlying question that digs at me. Could be I am scared of being abandoned or could be that he is not giving me what I need or want. Ultimately I think of branching out because it gives me back control. I don't act on this **** anymore. Life is too short and people, good people, are too hard to find. You gotta have a talk with yourself. You gotta grow up.
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