cgr68311 Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 So my exgf broke up with me 2 weeks ago to be exact. I dumped her first 6 weeks ago if that matters. I have .not contacted her since until yesterday afternoon and then again this morning. I sent two text msgs from a different number.The first text she responded by calling back. This morning's text she did not respond. I am attaching each text along with an explanation. I guess the overall point of each text is for her to know that I will be working on myself and when the time is right, I'll reach out to her.. Thoughts welcome... 1ST TEXT - Saturday afternoon: ***** “truck broke down babe, pastor read Rom 8:39 said hope is what lets good win over bad & to hang on tight to loved ones even in shiit times, kiss ur sis & kids 4 me” ***** Note: Please know that I don’t have a truck, never called her babe, never use the word 'shiit', she doesn’t have a sister, but she does have a kid and we did go to church together so there, indirect msg. 2nd TEXT: This morning (4:47am) I had texted her from the same #: “babe truck still broken needs MAINTENANCE hasnt been used still yours – I’ll bring it once fixed even if means start @ 0 miles, can you wait? Let’s not give up!” Note: Early AM she is quite vulnerable, I know. As youo noticed in this text, I wrote 'MAINTENANCE' in uppercase because when we dated I told her of a parable that people are like a business (i.e. restaurant) that sometimes it’s open partially or even shutdown for ‘maintenance’ and the owner may even place a sign ’Please excuse us for the mess and inconvenience, we are under MAINTENANCE I know this borderlines pathetic, petty, stalkerish, cowardish etc. but it's done. Not sure if she will connect the dots to our situation or connect this to me in a creepy way...I mean, can anyone other than my perturbed mind can decipher any meaning out of these texts and make a correlation to me other than the fact that they are anonymous?
Xemyd Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 From what you posted I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about, and if she doesn't understand it either, yeah it's creepy. I would honestly start looking over my shoulder more if I ever got something like that.
Grumpybutfun Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Your entire post is just confusing...what is the purpose of your texts to her? G 1
Cakess Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Why did you send these things?? I find it very creepy.
Author cgr68311 Posted January 7, 2014 Author Posted January 7, 2014 (edited) Your entire post is just confusing...what is the purpose of your texts to her? G Yeah, I am not doing too well, my apologies. A little background: Ex flirted with a guy friend during Thanksgiving. I dumped her then took her back the following week after she contacted me. Ex gf invites ex husband's children over the weekend before Christmas. These kids belittled me all weekend long saying all sorts of things about the ex and her. It frustrated me and she dumped me. We had been NC since. I am planning on going NC indefinitely, meaning at least 30-60 days and then reassess. Thus, the intent of these texts were the following: I am not afraid of contacting her, or even go to her home. She actually asked me to come over a couple days after the break up to do our good bye ritual and I was fine. However, I do respect her decision, hence the reason why I decided to send these covert messages (and also to preserve some dignity I guess): a.) the first 'wrong recipient' text was to let her know that if we love each other, we should hang on tight....I mean, just so you all understand, the week before we were excited then super sad because a pregnancy test came back negative. b). the second text msg from this morning was to let her know (in my own analogy way) that the 'truck' (me) was 'still broken' and needed additional 'maintenance'. and that it still had not 'been used and still hers'. And that I would 'bring it back' once 'fixed' even if it meant at '0 mileage'.... I know it sounds twisted but it made sense when I thought about it at 4am.... Edited January 7, 2014 by cgr68311
gothicrose Posted January 7, 2014 Posted January 7, 2014 Well I understood your analogy after the firs couple of reads...but even I found them creepy and - go read my threads; I kind of was stalking my ex! Are you using a number that she doesn't know is yours? So she thinks she getting anonymous texts off someone? If so, why? If you're going to contact her, at least have the balls to do it 'as yourself' and take an consequences. Or, go NC properly and don't contact her until, or unless you sort yourself out.
Simon Phoenix Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 http://cdn0.sbnation.com/imported_assets/1167769/jags_medium.gif
Kevin_D Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 What the...?! I'm sorry, I know I shouldn't be, but I'm actually laughing for the first time in two months... Which feels really good. So thank you, I guess. But what were you thinking!?
MoooOinkBaaa Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 She's gone total nuts, emotionally ****ed. Bet she's treating her body like crap.
Trapito Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 She's gone total nuts, emotionally ****ed. Bet she's treating her body like crap. Uhm.. What? Are you sure you are replying to the right thread? To the OP: Yes, those texts are creepy. Especially since you used two different phones.
Mrlonelyone Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 Let me get this straight. The first text you sent from an anonymous other phone in order to plant a subliminal message in your EX's mind? That is the most manipulative thing I have ever heard of. Not really all that "creepy". It's not like you're lurking in her bushes and peeping. If you get caught you will probably be prosecuted for harassment.
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