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Where do I find the social butterflies?


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I am 29, don't really have trouble getting dates, just really seem to struggle finding women I get that 'spark' with.

 

Reflecting on my dating/love/relationship life up to this point, the women I've fallen fast and hard for (for better or worse :p) have mostly been outgoing, gregarious, and sort of the Queen bee of her group. Specific interests are less of an issue because I find that's usually the adventurous 'up for anything' type.

 

Along with the smart/funny/attractive piece, I feel like its tough to find many single women that fit into that.

 

Any tips on places around town where you might find those personality traits?

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If you want someone adventurous then you need to go places where these women might be. During the week they may be at parks, during the weekend they may be skydiving, ziplining, scuba diving, etc.

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There is no specific place that an outgoing person will go.

 

Consider where you are currently looking and find 2-3 new locations.

 

If you just look in bars and parks consider coffee shops and supermarkets. You would be able to use your confidence to open conversation in a way you can judge their personality.

 

Your post indicates you are confident in your ability to get dates - use that ability to make approaches in new places. Anywhere is a possibility!

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