DanielFife83 Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 I am single at almost 31 and I havent been with anyone for a while. I live in Rural Plymouth NH, near the White Mountains and Lakes REgion. I feel I Will NEVER Find anyone, everyone I meet is taken. I dislike being single and what will I Find for a woman, I am single at almost 31. I want a female partner in crime to do stuff with, go on bf gf date nights, a few romantic getaways, and go to the movies.
nescafe1982 Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 I used to live near there.. Beautiful area! What are you doing to meet new people? Do you have a dating strategy?
furby19 Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 I am in the same boat. I have met a lot of guys and went on several dates. I just can't seem to meet anyone that I can see myself in a relationship with. 2
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 6, 2014 Author Posted January 6, 2014 I am in the same boat. I have met a lot of guys and went on several dates. I just can't seem to meet anyone that I can see myself in a relationship with. I am 31 and will probably never find anyone, I wish I Was not in my 30s. what happens when a guy is single in his 30s and what will he find?
winny Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 I am single at almost 31 and I havent been with anyone for a while. I live in Rural Plymouth NH, near the White Mountains and Lakes REgion. I feel I Will NEVER Find anyone, everyone I meet is taken. I dislike being single and what will I Find for a woman, I am single at almost 31. I want a female partner in crime to do stuff with, go on bf gf date nights, a few romantic getaways, and go to the movies. First of all don't be so negative. 31 is an awesome age to be! It's not young or naive... but it is not old either... 3
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 6, 2014 Author Posted January 6, 2014 there are no women to ask out, theyre all married or have boyfriends they are happy with me, the ones around me. I wont wait for people to be available again (Will that happen). again what do single women at my age, 31, find?
winny Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 A lot of questions I guess... as to why they are still single.. LOL
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 6, 2014 Author Posted January 6, 2014 A lot of questions I guess... as to why they are still single.. LOL I never meet anyone single? and what will I find, I am 31. or will it be a while?
winny Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 there are no women to ask out, theyre all married or have boyfriends they are happy with me, the ones around me. I wont wait for people to be available again (Will that happen). again what do single women at my age, 31, find? Have you tried Online Dating? OkCupid, Match.com, eHarmony?
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 6, 2014 Author Posted January 6, 2014 Have you tried Online Dating? OkCupid, Match.com, eHarmony? hasnt worked so far. what i f I am single at 33 what will happen?
winny Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 I never meet anyone single? and what will I find, I am 31. or will it be a while? Am not an astrologer... but what I know is... some people find love bit late... that doesn't mean it wouldn't be worth the wait. All you can do is.. try. Try is whatever way you can... Where do u generally look for single women? 1
winny Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 hasnt worked so far. what if I am single at 33 what will happen? Nothing will happen... the world will go on as it is.. LOL Why do you think that being in a relationship is the best thing that can happen to you... or will be the end of your unhappiness?
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 6, 2014 Author Posted January 6, 2014 but what do men single at my age find? and I Feel all the good women are taken.
winny Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 but what do men single at my age find? and I Feel all the good women are taken. If a "good" man like you can be single at 31.. so can be a woman! 1
winny Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 If it's as dire as you say it is, move. And geez...you're 31, not 61, relax. I know.. LOL OP - Is this the matter or something else happened today? ;-) Best friend got engaged? ;-)
furby19 Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 I know.. LOL OP - Is this the matter or something else happened today? ;-) Best friend got engaged? ;-) I feel this way, too. I think it is because I have been single for a long time.
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 6, 2014 Author Posted January 6, 2014 does it get harder to find someone? I also dont want one with "Baggage"
deathandtaxes Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 I am 31 and will probably never find anyone, I wish I Was not in my 30s. what happens when a guy is single in his 30s and what will he find? Oh woe is you. Come on man. Life isn't that bad being single at 31. I'm single at 35 and effin living it up! I was married for a loooong time. You're not missing anything. Just enjoy life. And if you're that hard up for women, move to a more populated area.
deathandtaxes Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 does it get harder to find someone? I also dont want one with "Baggage" The older you get, the more baggage you will have if you have actually tried to live life to the fullest... 1
Author DanielFife83 Posted January 6, 2014 Author Posted January 6, 2014 maybe move to an area with more singles? like where why are singles SOO hard to find in Northern and CEntral NH??? and so many women got married around 21 up this part of NH ,every job I have ahd all my co workers were taken also another note, why do some single mothers let their bodies go after having kids and not work out to loose that?
nescafe1982 Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 Move to Boston. One of the best places to be a single 30-something in the world. From a former single 30-something Bostonian. 1
d0nnivain Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 When you live in rural areas you have to be willing to expand your horizons. Are you willing to go to the nearest big city? Have you told close friends & family that you are open to introductions? What are you doing other than complaining that there are no women? Are you active in any organizations? If not, get out there. Volunteer somewhere. Take or teach a class. Participate in a sport. Even if you don't meet your soulmate doing those things, you may meet the person who knows your soulmate. I joined a women's business organization to help my then fledgling enterprise. Several of the women I met there took me to a different organization's event where I met my husband. I was 39 at the time. You never know who knows somebody you need to know.
FineFreshFierce Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 Maybe you should move somewhere with a bigger population!
d0nnivain Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 does it get harder to find someone? I also dont want one with "Baggage" Post college it does take more effort. Everyone has baggage. The trick is to find someone with a carry on rather than a steamer trunk.
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