Setback

[Teejee]

I haven't had any contact with my ex for 7/8 weeks now. It was going a little bit better, but today I just feel like ****. Still miss her a lot and can't stand the thoughts of her having sex with another guy. I just saw a photo of her on fb (through a mutual friend) and just seeing her still does something to me. Is this normal and will this pass?

[TylerDurdenn]

Block her, you've been doing great.. This is only a blip

[realfriends]

My best advice to you is to block the mutual friend as well.

 

I had to do this to multiple people because anytime I saw anything about my ex, I felt like I got setback and my heart dropped. Its much better this way.

[Teejee]

I have blocked him. But is it normal that you get these feelings looking at a picture from her?

[notthathard]

I have blocked him. But is it normal that you get these feelings looking at a picture from her?

 

Yes, you know when your over it when you look at a picture and it has no effect on you.

 

I actually went through my old photo's several times, it was painful but I think it actually made me stronger faster... everyone is different.

[realfriends]

Yes. Thats why you have to block anything where you can see them.

I blocked mines FB along with pretty much all of her friends, all of instagram and twitter. If you don't do this, you won't heal. I tell me friends also to tell me nothing about her and don't even speak about her mutual friends because it still hurts me. Looking at pictures is the worst for me.

 

You do it enough and realize how stupid it is because it just hurts you. Theres no way to heal unless you do this.

[btvdts]

I deleted all her pics/ deactivated my fb account. yea it sucks and I think about her, but you should do the same, get rid of everything.

[Teejee]

Thanks for all the answers!! I already got rid of photo's and other stuff. NC for 7/8 weeks now and deleted her from fb. It just sucks that it still has a huge grip on me :/