blackcanary Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Here's the scenario: My guy was giving me a back massage (we both knew sex would follow). He smoothly made his way to pull my pants down and said "knock knock." I quickly pulled my pants back up and said no. He kept trying, I kept saying no. He was confused as to why I denied him. Given the position, I assumed he wanted to have anal sex. I associated the words "knock knock" with "knocking on the back door." We later had a conversation where he told me that THAT was not his intention. Should I believe him that he didn't know that "knock knock" would be associated with sex from behind?
StanMusial Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Knock knock. Who's there? Wiener. Wiener who? Want some wiener? 2
soccerrprp Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Here's the scenario: My guy was giving me a back massage (we both knew sex would follow). He smoothly made his way to pull my pants down and said "knock knock." I quickly pulled my pants back up and said no. He kept trying, I kept saying no. He was confused as to why I denied him. Given the position, I assumed he wanted to have anal sex. I associated the words "knock knock" with "knocking on the back door." We later had a conversation where he told me that THAT was not his intention. Should I believe him that he didn't know that "knock knock" would be associated with sex from behind? I didn't know that it was associated with anal sex. 4
TylerDurdenn Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Sorry OP but that made me laugh. Knock knock? Seriously? 2
Art_Critic Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Even urban dictionary has no definition for 'knock knock' being sex related. I think all he was looking for was permission to continue to take your pants off so he could have sex with you... odd.. sure but it seems innocent enough.. 1
Author blackcanary Posted January 5, 2014 Author Posted January 5, 2014 I should also add that this happened years ago in the beginning of our relationship. It's something we laugh about now but he still picks on me for thinking he was suggesting anal sex. Hence the forum, to see who finally wins this discussion after so many years, lol.
Frank2thepoint Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Oh this made me laugh. I will use the term the next time I want sexy time with a lady. It'll probably freak her out and send her here to these forums. Wait...never mind. So, yes you should believe him. But to be on the safe side, discuss how you feel about anal and how he does as well.
Frank2thepoint Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 I should also add that this happened years ago in the beginning of our relationship. It's something we laugh about now but he still picks on me for thinking he was suggesting anal sex. Hence the forum, to see who finally wins this discussion after so many years, lol. Damn it, I missed this part. Forget what I said previously.
somedude81 Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 Here's the scenario: My guy was giving me a back massage (we both knew sex would follow). He smoothly made his way to pull my pants down and said "knock knock." I quickly pulled my pants back up and said no. He kept trying, I kept saying no. He was confused as to why I denied him. Given the position, I assumed he wanted to have anal sex. I associated the words "knock knock" with "knocking on the back door." We later had a conversation where he told me that THAT was not his intention. Should I believe him that he didn't know that "knock knock" would be associated with sex from behind? Why'd didn't you say, "Who's there?" 4
Grumpybutfun Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 Why'd didn't you say, "Who's there?" The big bad back door wolf of course. You both win because the communication was off. Now it is better if you can laugh.
Art_Critic Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 Why'd didn't you say, "Who's there?" hahaha, the so right response I have heard the term 'knocked the bottom out of it' before...
Bengal Tiger Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 I would give him a benefit of a doubt. Talk to him about what exactly he was asking for and also tell him clearly what you want and don't want.
StanMusial Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 Knock, knock, I'm pregnant. Maybe he was thinking out loud, and saying "up" under his breath
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