Bishop556 Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 I had a close friend of mine who does not wish to speak to me anymore due to the break up that my ex and I experienced about a month and a half ago. While I know that this friendship is over and will never be what it was before, I want to apologize to her for breaking her trust in me. Should I even do so, or would it be inappropriate?
d0nnivain Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 A break up is kind of like a divorce. Your EX is getting "custody" of this friend. Leave it be. This person already picked a side & your apology won't change anything.
Simon Phoenix Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 No, why would you apologize to somebody for something that happened with someone else? Sometimes friends have to pick a side and it's nothing personal. I was friends with my buddy's girlfriend several years back and when they were going through stuff, I was a sounding board for both. However, when they broke up (she cheated on him while in long-distance right before she was going to break up with him) I had to choose between the two and I chose my friend. I don't hate her, but my loyalty was to my friend, not her. Had she done what you want to do, apologize to me for something she did to my friend, I'd find it extremely strange and really weird. I wasn't part of their relationship, I don't want to be involved.
veggirl Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 How did you break your friends trust? What does it have to do with your ex? I'm confused.
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