hentajus Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 (edited) Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. We talk on the phone and online all the time and i traveled to her town for a date for the 3rd time and that was yesterday. The date went well. We went out to eat, then had a walk in the park, exchanged birthday gifts (our birthdays are only a few days apart) and we kissed at the end. But afterward she didn't reply to my messages until very late that evening. I asked her about it today and she said it was because she was sad. I asked her why and if i did anything wrong, cause i don't want to repeat my mistakes. Also asked "what should i do differently?" and she answered "you'd have to sleep over". So, i don't know if she means she just wants to spend more time with me and i should try to see her more often and stay for longer, because i have work and we can't meet each other too often, other than the weekends, or was that a hint the date should have ended with us making love? I really don't know what to think about that and what to answer... or perhaps a safe way to ask, without REALLY asking her. Any tips? Thanks! Edited January 5, 2014 by hentajus
MrMeh Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Really? She wants you to sleep over! Hmmm...I wonder what she wants? C'mon!
furby19 Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 I think you should ask her what she means. That could mean a lot of things. It could mean that she literally wants you to sleep over. It could also mean that she wants to spend more time with you. You said that you work a lot and don't have a lot of time for her. Most people here can agree that we make time for what we want to make time for. How can you get to know someone (especially if you are in a long distance relationship) if you are not spending enough time with them.
julzfromsa Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 it seems like a good thing - perhaps you should do the sleep over ( i would) make sure when you do go sleep over you are well groomed, and prepared for anything. Do not look for sex, but be affectionate if you are feeling the vibe. Be confident and take it as a date. She will open up to you soon enough. Dont think the worst 1
shinealight Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 I reckon do the sleepover with dvd and popcorn, if you really like this girl you are going to have to make some sacrifices!
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