Nanners Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Yesterday my best friend and I were hanging out. We were sitting on a couch waiting for another friend to show up so we could go cruising. My best friend was snap chatting with his gf when out of no where he nudged me and said this is for you. The picture his gf sent him was my ex sticking her tounge out smiling giving the peace sign with the caption that said "Tell him (my ex name) says Heey" I was speechless to say the least. He asked if I wanted to reply to it and I told him that I didn't. I have been in no contact with her for almost 3 months now. Plus shes still with the guy she left me for so this is really confusing to me. Why would she do this?
chris21422 Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Nothing she is just bored bro.. Don't look too much into it.. good job on ignoring her. 4
mammasita Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 She did it to get under your skin. Good for you for not responding.
julzfromsa Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 sorry brother, if she wants more, wants you back she would be groveling at your door step. I agree, she is looking for a self confidence boost. Good job for the NC thing. You doing great!! 1
Kalinka1 Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Or maybe she's just trying to be friendly and bury the hatchet. In any case, I would not interpret it as a sign of love and regret, but maybe as reaching out to normalise the situation. And yes, I am aware that I am playing devil's advocate here and trying to see the good in people no matter what
Mondmellonw Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 She is just curious. Don't give much importance to it.
deathandtaxes Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 how old is your ex? Sounds like a very immature thing to do. Just brush it off and chalk it up to immaturity. Then tell your friends not to do that and explain the NC process to them.
CelticGibson Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 What's the confusion? She's with the guy she left you for. She hasn't said anything about reconciliation or anything along those lines. All she did was throw breadcrumbs through her friend to you. I wouldn't think anything more than that and it's not worth a response. Good job for not responding and tell your friend to avoid any more mention of her to you because you are in No Contact... 1
Author Nanners Posted January 6, 2014 Author Posted January 6, 2014 (edited) Thanks guys. According to my best friend his gf was sleeping over at my ex house. I'm just going to assume she was telling my ex everything I have been up to since the breakup, which is a lot, and she must of just got curious. I'm not mad that she sent that but its like the second I felt like I moved on she does something like that and now shes on my mind. I think whats making it worse is that I'm snowed in today with nothing to do. I was confused because I put it in my mind that she hated my guts and never wanted to see or hear from me again. I know it was just a simple picture message but it put her back on my mind. No worries though I'm going to hang with friends all day tomorrow so I should be better. As for the burying the hatchet theory its a possibility. She apologized to me a couple days after the breakup but being that I was hungover and emotional I said something that I feel awful for saying. One of these days I'm going to apologize for it but now is definitely not the time. how old is your ex? Sounds like a very immature thing to do. Just brush it off and chalk it up to immaturity. Then tell your friends not to do that and explain the NC process to them. She turned 18 a couple months ago. I suckered punched him in the arm afterwards and told him never to do that again. I think I made my message clear to him. Edited January 6, 2014 by Nanners
Juha Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 truthfully think it means nothing at all. She is just being "friendly"...
StyleOnEm Posted January 6, 2014 Posted January 6, 2014 Just a spur of the moment, spontaneous little nudge to let you know she's doing great without you. Nothing to see here. 1
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