hallelujah Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 Please read my story with understanding and empathy. He was happy, excitable, funny, and he shared about himself with me. He spent time with me and protected me. He was extroverted and took care of me. Like a big brother, but also really attractive. He had a funny, silly name, and it also had a bold, amazing, Hebrew meaning. He was a Christian. He was passionate about his love for me. He had close brothers in Christ. His love language was touch and quality time. He was Asian and took careful attention of the way he dressed. He seemed confident because he liked what he liked (unique music, style, culture, and a kind of girl) and he didn't apologize for liking it. I didn't have good boundaries with how I spent time around him and confessed to him that I liked him early on in the friendship. He fell for me fast and I felt smothered, especially when he constantly invited me to things and wanted to spend time with me I felt out of control. He seemed to change his online persona to please me too much and it frightened me. He talked bad about his roommates and close guy friends; I didn't like that. It was my freshman year of college and I couldn't focus on my studies anymore. He didn't seem so serious about his studies either, but the main thing is that I need to humble myself and take care of my own, so may the Lord be glorified in my studies. I wrote him a long letter and broke up with him with a last hug. It really tore us up and hurt us for a long time, especially since we could still 'see' each other on social media. I'm thankful we had that time and also thankful it's over. I wish the best on both of us and Jesus' love on us. Please pray for us.
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