ConfusedAgainn Posted January 8, 2005 Posted January 8, 2005 This is an odd story. I met this girl last spring and we hit it off really well. The first and second month were great, and then she started to dissapear. First she would be late, then one week she would be gone for a day. The next month she would be gone for two days. So eventually i had enough of it and kicked her out and brought her stuff to her mothers. We talked and talked and I couldn't have her doing what she wanted when she wanted, and she told me that her feelings are too strong for her towards me and that scared her. Well she dissapeared for three weeks and in the first week i missed her and wanted her back. I started texting her, writing her e-mails, calling her and such... and she told me that she missed me and loved me. Well then she slowely stopped answering my text's, phone calls and such and then I stopped contacting her. She calls me at work and makes plans with me for a Saturday afternoon at the fair with her son, that she would call me when she was ready to be picked up. No call all day long. So I go to her house and shes not there. I wait a few minutes and then she pulls up in the car with her son and another guy driving. I knew exactly what was going on and she kept telling me that she and him where friends and friends only. She then dissapeared for two weeks after that day. Then he had a buisness trip to go on and she spent most of the time he was gone with me and said, "I Love You, but I want to see what happens with him." Well I knew what was going to happen so I went on vacation before he got back. I got back and she called me saying that she was kicked out of boy friends place because she called me earlier. I talked to her Mom and she wasn't kicked out, it turns out she didn't want to move with the guy. So I talked with her through out the night, but I just didn't trust what was going on. So I didn't talk to her the next day to see if she would call me around 5 exactly when i said I would call her. She never called, texted or e-mailed. She's back with the other guy. What do I do? Wait for her or move on?
StillHurtin Posted January 8, 2005 Posted January 8, 2005 Sorry you are going through this. She doesn't know what she wants. I wouldn't wait for her. Move on GL!
SunnySunShine Posted January 8, 2005 Posted January 8, 2005 Looks like this woman is confuse? I'm not trying not to be mean or any thing but it looks like she is using you too. Just move on. Its hard at first but loving yourself is far more important than loving a woman who is with another man. I know this because I'm kind of going through the same thing. Just think about it like this, once she is gone you can finally search for the one truly for you. A person who knows what they want and whos not confuse. - Sunny
Author ConfusedAgainn Posted January 8, 2005 Author Posted January 8, 2005 If she doesn't move to Texas to be with the other guy, because she will be away from her son... should I take her back then?
Merin Posted January 8, 2005 Posted January 8, 2005 Originally posted by ConfusedAgainn If she doesn't move to Texas to be with the other guy, because she will be away from her son... should I take her back then? NO. This girl has lied to you, cheated on you, used you... This ISN'T how you show someone you care about them.. and it sure as hell isn't how you "Love" someone. Don't you think you deserve to be FIRST CHOICE here? DO NOT I repeat DO NOT allow yourself to be anyone's back-up plan. Find someone else who is all about you... Good Lord.. think of the confusion she is bringing to her little persons life with all of her emotional vomit! Ugh!
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