henderson14 Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 I had a question about what is considered normal sleeping over behavior in dating. I have been out about 5 or 6 times with a girl. We've slept together twice, and she stayed over both times at my place. The last two times it "was that time of the month for her", so we didn't sleep together. I was over at her place last night and it was unclear if I should spend the night or not. We both gave each other the "It doesn't matter to me" explanation. To me, this is a no, because of course she isn't going to say no. She would be clear about wanting me to stay over if she did. I didn't want to impose and we are not exclusive. This is actually fine with be, because I sleep better alone, but I just wondered at what stage is it expected to stay the night and if it is weird not to?
d0nnivain Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 In the very beginning, I would expect to extend the invitation. If I didn't, I would want the person to go home. I also wouldn't stay unless specifically asked. After a while, it would be assumed that the person was staying.
soccerrprp Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 Well, you are not exclusive and some are more protective of their space then others. I would say that she was not thrilled about the idea of you staying, but I suspect that for her, exclusivity and something to do with her period may have a lot to do with it. She may not be comfortable with you staying while on her period? Not certain.
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