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WP4046 Established Member

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contacts you for the 1st time?

 

 

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It doesn't really matter. If I'm into a guy I will be happy with any message :)

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It doesn't really matter. If I'm into a guy I will be happy with any message :)

 

 

even with something like "HI" lol

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Ask what is she wearing?

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Ask what is she wearing?

 

 

 

I guess asking about what her food and movie preferences are is dull huh?

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I guess asking about what her food and movie preferences are is dull huh?

 

Nah you can do that too but first ask what is she wearing.

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Nah you can do that too but first ask what is she wearing.

 

 

u can asked that on POF because u wll get banned

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Don't bloody say hi!

 

Tell her she's gorgeous and you couldn't resist messaging then ask a question/comment about some activity or whatever in her profile.

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A guy sent me a message yesterday saying "I've never seen anything like you"

I don't know if that's good or bad but I liked it.

Girls like compliments if they are genuine.

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A guy sent me a message yesterday saying "I've never seen anything like you"

I don't know if that's good or bad but I liked it.

 

Thing? Anything? :lmao:

 

Isn't that what humans say to aliens when they make first contact in all those sci-fi movies? Or when they're performing autopsies?

 

Doctor 1: What is it?

Doctor 2: I don't know. I've never seen anything like it.

 

I've never seen anyone like you is better. :p

 

Although I'm teasing of course :)

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even with something like "HI" lol

 

Hi is fine. Don't go obscenely creepy sexual.

 

Even when I'm attracted that kind of message would be a turnoff.

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I like it if it references my profile and talks briefly about himself. Not just, hi, how are you.

 

I don't like it if it references my looks at all. I don't want overflowing compliments unless it's something specific and not look-driven.

 

That's what I've picked up in my grand experience of a few days, anyhow.

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u can asked that on POF because u wll get banned

 

Easy for you to say....

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I like it if it references my profile and talks briefly about himself. Not just, hi, how are you.

 

I don't like it if it references my looks at all. I don't want overflowing compliments unless it's something specific and not look-driven.

 

That's what I've picked up in my grand experience of a few days, anyhow.

 

This

 

I don't want the writer to .reference my looks as it screams "I wanna bone you" Id rather someo.e reference something in my profile so it shpws they actually read it and didnt just see my pic then.message me. "Hi" is way to.lazy for me, "What are you.wearing" is just creepy, thats a deleteable offense even of your profile is appealing.

 

Something like.

 

I see you're quite the avid fisherwoman, Have you.ever been up to (insert great fishing lake or river near your area)? The Bass are huge and the perch are delicious :)

 

A nice friendly message pertaining to one of my main interests will always make me check.out the guys profile. Now I'm the type of women to respond even if I'm not interested just to be polite. But if a woman isnt andwering your messages its probably because ypur profile,or pic isnt appealing to her. No perfect message will make an unintetested woman gain interest.

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This

 

I don't want the writer to .reference my looks as it screams "I wanna bone you" Id rather someo.e reference something in my profile so it shpws they actually read it and didnt just see my pic then.message me. "Hi" is way to.lazy for me, "What are you.wearing" is just creepy, thats a deleteable offense even of your profile is appealing.

 

Something like.

 

I see you're quite the avid fisherwoman, Have you.ever been up to (insert great fishing lake or river near your area)? The Bass are huge and the perch are delicious :)

 

A nice friendly message pertaining to one of my main interests will always make me check.out the guys profile. Now I'm the type of women to respond even if I'm not interested just to be polite. But if a woman isnt andwering your messages its probably because ypur profile,or pic isnt appealing to her. No perfect message will make an unintetested woman gain interest.

 

 

Why do I have to be so amazing if we are both single?

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It doesn't really matter. If I'm into a guy I will be happy with any message :)

 

Even if the guy says he's sitting on the toilet thinking of you?

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Even if the guy says he's sitting on the toilet thinking of you?

 

 

She probably would accept them too

 

 

Remember, if they think a guy is hot anything goes

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Remember, if they think a guy is hot anything goes

 

"Hey unicorn butt. I'm on the toilet, dropping off the kids at the pool, and I'm thinking of you. What are you wearing?"

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Why do I have to be so amazing if we are both single?

 

I'm sorry I don't follow???

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I'm sorry I don't follow???

 

 

So many women want a guy to come correct or don't come at all

 

so I am asking why is it so important that I be so amazing when we are both single?

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So many women want a guy to come correct or don't come at all

 

so I am asking why is it so important that I be so amazing when we are both single?

 

Well if you want to remain single then putting little thought into a message will more than likely keep you that way.

 

I enjoy dating thoughtful men who can carry on a good conversation. Those types of men usually don't send messages like "Hi" or "Hey sexy", or "What are you.wearing"

 

Being single and being desperate are two different things my friend :)

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I think it has something to do with havinh extreme large eyes which are not unlike this girl Marsha's.they don't go into the head properly.

http://blog.rifftrax.com/wp-content/photos/Ukrainian_model.jpg

 

But mine are green.

 

Thing? Anything? :lmao:

 

Isn't that what humans say to aliens when they make first contact in all those sci-fi movies? Or when they're performing autopsies?

 

Doctor 1: What is it?

Doctor 2: I don't know. I've never seen anything like it.

 

I've never seen anyone like you is better. :p

 

Although I'm teasing of course :)

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Well if you want to remain single then putting little thought into a message will more than likely keep you that way.

 

I enjoy dating thoughtful men who can carry on a good conversation. Those types of men usually don't send messages like "Hi" or "Hey sexy", or "What are you.wearing"

 

Being single and being desperate are two different things my friend :)

 

 

But it's tons of women online so i never understood the profiles that say......."Read before messaging"

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But it's tons of women online so i never understood the profiles that say......."Read before messaging"

 

My profile never stated that. However it was obvious the ones who read it vs the ones who didn't. Guess who I took the time to type a nice response to and who got a "Not interested" reply.back. If you want a good woman then send a good message :)

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My profile never stated that. However it was obvious the ones who read it vs the ones who didn't. Guess who I took the time to type a nice response to and who got a "Not interested" reply.back. If you want a good woman then send a good message :)

 

I was led to believe that the first message to a woman needed to be reflective, etc. I tried an experiment for a period and simply wrote:

 

"Hi, let me know if you'd like to chat."

 

It turned out that the success of return responses of interest were just as high AND required far less energy, creativity on my part. :D

 

I am not sure how to take the explanation from women who say that they want something creative, or evidence that the guy has read the profile after that experiment.

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