SJ69 Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 (edited) Hey guys! This is a very odd situation, well to me. My ex and I broke up about 6/7 months ago, basically on her terms and now she's talking to my good friend. I'm assuming that their talking more than just friends because they are in contact with each other on Instagram and Twitter a lot more than previously, they hardly ever spoke, didn't even follow each other. I'm bothered by this because before we got together, they had a "fling" that my ex would always say was never serious and my friend will tell people I stole her from them, but I didn't, regardless, she was with me and we were actually in love for about 16 months. I'm here to ask advice on what to do. Me and my ex have spoken about 3 times in the last 6 months, I'm over her in a sense, but I'm still at the stage of not wanting to see her with anyone else and I REALLY don't want to see her with my friend... It's disrespectful and infuriating. Why is she doing this? Not to mention, this person is in 10th grade, a loser, dates on and off with my ex's decent friend, and is a horrible smoker. Edited January 4, 2014 by SJ69
strive Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 It's really difficult to see your ex essentially moving on and replacing you, but: 1) that's not your call to make 2) you have no right to get jealous because you're no longer together Sorry, there's really nothing you can do about this. That's why NC is important so you don't have to know about things like these.
almond Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 It is over between you two. There is nothing you can do to stop these two from talking. They've even hooked up in the past, and probably will again in the near future unfortunately. This is life. This is what happens after break ups. Save your dignity, and say nothing to no one. Act like you don't care. Go full NC - block her from everything, and soon enough, you actually will get to a point where you don't care.
PS.chicago Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Tread carefully. From what you've said, I haven't seen any proof that they are dating. Yeah it looks bad, but things aren't always as they seem. Just because they had history together doesn't mean jack, frankly. Play it cool because you don't want to lose a gf AND a good friend over this. Unfortunately for you, you'll probably be watching every little thing between them which will make you go nuts. It'll be rough but stay away from social media as much as possible.
Reels Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Ex seems sloppy already, that's not a true love, but temporary want.
Kevin_D Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Huh? Why don't you just tell your "good friend" how you fell? What the hell? My ex contacted my "good friend", and the first thing he did was to ask me what he should respond.
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