Reserve309 Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 Well, the relationship I was in ended last Saturday. It wasn't mutual. I ended things with her because it didn't feel like we were lovers anymore. We felt more like friends. We were both very hurt by the breakup. I got drunk and went to the casino. She went and slept with her ex. She slept with him less than 24 hours of us breaking up. I went over to her house to try and patch us up and work on our relationship and then she told me she slept with her ex. She couldn't wait longer than a day I guess. Now I don't know if I want to try and fix things. What's the general consensus? Move on?
JDPT Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 How about some common sense. As stated, the relationship ran it's course. She ran straight to her ex who she most likely still has feelings for. Don't dilute yourself and see and objectively analyze facts for what they are. No need to sugar coat. I understand it's painful, we've all been there. Hang tight and work on yourself. You are all that matters from this point forward.
KatZee Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 Just because she ran to her ex doesn't mean she has feelings for him. He's an ex so he's comfortable and she was in pain and sought comfort. This doesn't mean you're going to find them dating again. It was something familiar. Also, she was single. She didn't cheat on you. You dumped her. What she does thereafter doesn't concern you, even if it was 5 minutes after you dumped her. When someone is dumped the spiral immediately out of control, there are so many feelings, things going through their minds. Not everything done after being dumped makes sense, is logical, or the smart thing to do. Either work on it with her, or move on. Do not start toying with her emotions by dumping her, getting back together, only to dump her again. Figure out what you want to do and stick to it. 2
veggirl Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 When I was younger I might deal with that sh*t but now I'd move on. Not interested in someone who races back to their ex for comfort. Find someone else to comfort you. Just immature.
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