Good news...?

[mantlefan]

If you want, you can send an email to [email protected]. It's an old account I use when I need to post my address publicly. From there I can send you my real address. If email isn't anonymous enough for you, I understand.

[Mondmellonw]

If you want, you can send an email to [email protected]. It's an old account I use when I need to post my address publicly. From there I can send you my real address. If email isn't anonymous enough for you, I understand.

Done, mantlefan!

[Haydn]

You dont need this guy mindmellow. It will pass and you will meet someone who is wonderful. Alcoholic, stay away. just drag you down. Thats all you you need to think about. Will it improve with a guy who drinks all the time? How could he take care of kiddies? Keep posting here.

[Mondmellonw]

You dont need this guy mindmellow. It will pass and you will meet someone who is wonderful. Alcoholic, stay away. just drag you down. Thats all you you need to think about. Will it improve with a guy who drinks all the time? How could he take care of kiddies? Keep posting here.

Thanks Haydn.

I just got a message from him a minute ago.

Saying "just leave me alone, I'm not your ****ing diary".

 

 

 

?????

[Haydn]

Well he is obviously out for every meal. (A drunken headcase) Best blocked and ignored eh? Takes time but you will get there.

 

 

Thanks Haydn.

I just got a message from him a minute ago.

Saying "just leave me alone, I'm not your ****ing diary".

 

 

 

?????

[Mondmellonw]

Well he is obviously out for every meal. (A drunken headcase) Best blocked and ignored eh? Takes time but you will get there.

He is blocked, but I receive the notifications when a new message from a blocked number pop's up.

I wanted to say "please, ****kkk offff" But nooooooooo, I just won't let that door open for him to keep insulting me.

 

That's what I did, that last time I told him I wish I never knew him.

 

 

I hate myself for having made that contact now.... But I won't respond anymore.

I hate this.

[Haydn]

Please do not give into temptation and reply. Most if us here including me have dragged out our feelings and begged and asked and looked for closure. You dont need to go through this. It never works and it makes you feel worse. So post here whenever you have a weak moment. Listening to you friend.

 

QUOTE=Mondmellonw;5443816]He is blocked, but I receive the notifications when a new message from a blocked number pop's up.

I wanted to say "please, ****kkk offff" But nooooooooo, I just won't let that door open for him to keep insulting me.

 

That's what I did, that last time I told him I wish I never knew him.

 

 

I hate myself for having made that contact now.... But I won't respond anymore.

I hate this.

[Mondmellonw]

Please do not give into temptation and reply. Most if us here including me have dragged out our feelings and begged and asked and looked for closure. You dont need to go through this. It never works and it makes you feel worse. So post here whenever you have a weak moment. Listening to you friend.

 

QUOTE=Mondmellonw;5443816]He is blocked, but I receive the notifications when a new message from a blocked number pop's up.

I wanted to say "please, ****kkk offff" But nooooooooo, I just won't let that door open for him to keep insulting me.

 

That's what I did, that last time I told him I wish I never knew him.

 

 

I hate myself for having made that contact now.... But I won't respond anymore.

I hate this.

Thanks for listening. It's been amazing to be here... And no, I won't respond.

I already did that before, and it makes me look like I'm weak and he is just laughing from me.

I don't regret having feelings: I regret having showed him I have them.

He is an ass. He doesn't deserves my pain... But I have it now.

I just feel terrible cause I gave him my permission to tell me I had mental issues... I know he is the one who has them, but I need my self steem back and right now I feel like I'm nowhere.

[Haydn]

No! You are somewhere. You are here. And people are listening and will help. So yes you are somewhere friend.

 

Thanks for listening. It's been amazing to be here... And no, I won't respond.

I already did that before, and it makes me look like I'm weak and he is just laughing from me.

I don't regret having feelings: I regret having showed him I have them.

He is an ass. He doesn't deserves my pain... But I have it now.

I just feel terrible cause I gave him my permission to tell me I had mental issues... I know he is the one who has them, but I need my self steem back and right now I feel like I'm nowhere.

[Mondmellonw]

No! You are somewhere. You are here. And people are listening and will help. So yes you are somewhere friend.

 

 

Thanks for listening. It's been amazing to be here... And no, I won't respond.

I already did that before, and it makes me look like I'm weak and he is just laughing from me.

I don't regret having feelings: I regret having showed him I have them.

He is an ass. He doesn't deserves my pain... But I have it now.

I just feel terrible cause I gave him my permission to tell me I had mental issues... I know he is the one who has them, but I need my self steem back and right now I feel like I'm nowhere.

Thank you.

I want to stop blaming myself for his issues...

I guess my only flaw here is being caring for an idiot.

[Haydn]

Mondmellonw. Idiots are the worst. We somehow feel we are responsible. Stay away from this laughable chap.

 

Thank you.

I want to stop blaming myself for his issues...

I guess my only flaw here is being caring for an idiot.

[legion113]

Thank you.

I want to stop blaming myself for his issues...

I guess my only flaw here is being caring for an idiot.

 

That's not a flaw, that's a virtue, even idiots need to be cared for..well, for a time anyway, sooner or later they are going down the toilet, and you don't want to join them in their ride to sh*tsville.

[Mondmellonw]

Yes..., as I said, the last time I broke NC it was because he took a beating (had an accident, or whatever) and he was ill at home.

He didn't reply at all (it was over a cellphone mssg). I felt stupid for caring.

He lied to me all the time and manipulated things, so I decided to send him another mssg just telling him I wish I never knew him, and I guess this is his final response, laughing from me.

I hate it because there are lots of mutual friends involved onto this big deal.

But I never did any harm on anyone.... I should be proud I guess.

[legion113]

Yes..., as I said, the last time I broke NC it was because he took a beating (had an accident, or whatever) and he was ill at home.

He didn't reply at all (it was over a cellphone mssg). I felt stupid for caring.

He lied to me all the time and manipulated things, so I decided to send him another mssg just telling him I wish I never knew him, and I guess this is his final response, laughing from me.

I hate it because there are lots of mutual friends involved onto this big deal.

But I never did any harm on anyone.... I should be proud I guess.

 

 

I would tell him, "Actually I'm glad I knew you, now I know what a sh.t landmine looks like, now I can avoid them in the future. Next time you get in an accident, complete the job, but then again, you've always failed at everything you do..being a good kisser, being good at sex, ummm daily hygiene, relationships..."

Well I really wouldn't send the above, but pretend you did

[Mondmellonw]

I would tell him, "Actually I'm glad I knew you, now I know what a sh.t landmine looks like, now I can avoid them in the future. Next time you get in an accident, complete the job, but then again, you've always failed at everything you do..being a good kisser, being good at sex, ummm daily hygiene, relationships..."

Well I really wouldn't send the above, but pretend you did

Haha, lol, thanks

 

 

He is a fail being a gentleman, that's the only thing I know.

 

 

 

And what you say it's true. Only thing I can get from here is to avoid this type of people in the future. They only use you and make you suffer, and leave, like if nothing ever happened... While you're here posting this.

Only time will tell who is who, I guess.

[mantlefan]

Anytime I feel like contacting my ex, I remember how much I wish I would have seen this site first. I can't undo the past, but when I feel like contacting her, I remember all the regret I have for doing everything MY way and not coming here for advice, and that makes it easier to put down the phone or the laptop. I blocked her number, hid all photos of her from my facebook timeline, locked all of the letters and photos from the past into a box and hid it away, blocked her on facebook.

 

 

It's hard to do, but just come back and read this thread and you talking yourself through it all and you will know not to contact him.

[Mondmellonw]

Anytime I feel like contacting my ex, I remember how much I wish I would have seen this site first. I can't undo the past, but when I feel like contacting her, I remember all the regret I have for doing everything MY way and not coming here for advice, and that makes it easier to put down the phone or the laptop. I blocked her number, hid all photos of her from my facebook timeline, locked all of the letters and photos from the past into a box and hid it away, blocked her on facebook.

 

 

It's hard to do, but just come back and read this thread and you talking yourself through it all and you will know not to contact him.

I can relate to this... "Why didn't I found this site before?" It was because I was desperate, but not desperate enough to see I needed to talk about this. It wasn't secure to talk about this with peolpe in my real life (outside this box).. we have a lot of mutual friends and this is a small town (damn it) so everyone knows everthing and anything that happens here, every day. It's awful.

 

Yes, I would not. All I could get from him is more shame, and why would I feel ashamed for him, calling me crazy if he is the twisted one? I don't know what to believe sometimes. I just know I won't say anything else to him anymore.