1994O Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 so me and my ex got back together. we were split up for 3 weeks after a 9 month relationship. Im 19 and shes 17. we both love eachother dearly. we want to get married and have children someday and travel the world. however when we got back together she did say she wanted to warn me incase her feelings changed if she didnt want the relationship a month down the line or whatever. we broke up due to changes in lifestyle as we both began college. things are different now and i know the relationship can work but i just get the feeling she is scared of breaking up. she wants to take things slow, day by day and see how we get on. any advice for me? im so happy to have her back but i really cant lose her again how do i take things slow and day by day? do i let her organise meeting up and let her contact me first etc? please help me im so confused. im the type of boy who overthinks everything aswell so im driving myself mad. she drunk called me the other night and she said shes happy with how its going but she did say we dont know what could happen. shes very scared of it going back to how it was as we had alot of petty fights before the break up.
chris21422 Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Hey man, you are still young.. I know you love her but don't make relationship a priority at this age. trust me focus on your studies/career. Change priorities
Author 1994O Posted January 4, 2014 Author Posted January 4, 2014 im trying to do that but she's always on my mind. i want to confront her about the way im feeling but i know if i do we will fight and probably break up. i just dont want to lose her forever.
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