irc333 Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 I got a follow-up response from a woman that I thought was interested in m, but turns out she was not. Her reason, that she "dates younger men or men who LOOK younger than her, and she prefers that". She said her husband looked older than what he really did, and it drove her crazy, she hated the fact that he looked older than his actual age....and he knew it. But yet....she married him anyway?
ZipperZapper Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 I got a follow-up response from a woman that I thought was interested in m, but turns out she was not. Her reason, that she "dates younger men or men who LOOK younger than her, and she prefers that". She said her husband looked older than what he really did, and it drove her crazy, she hated the fact that he looked older than his actual age....and he knew it. But yet....she married him anyway? He probably had money. Or he had lots of status, something women absolutely crave but won't lift a finger to earn for themselves. I've been finding lately that if I get any signs of interest in the online dating arena, it's from 55-60 year old women. I suspect that's because I look a lot older than I am, despite the fact that I'm only 51. One 39 year-old chick rejected me because I was a bit older than she wanted, but her profile said she wanted to meet guys between the ages of 26 and 64, LOL. When I called her on it, she backpedalled and said that she made a mistake with the age range. Women love to whine about how bad men are, but are often the most inveterate liars themselves. Methinks I didn't fit the picture of the tall, handsome country boy she said she was looking for, and that was the real reason for the rejection. We actually had quite a bit in common, but it seems she was dead set on living out a fantasy rather than being in the real world, where you don't get everything you want, so...
Eau Claire Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 I got a follow-up response from a woman that I thought was interested in m, but turns out she was not. Her reason, that she "dates younger men or men who LOOK younger than her, and she prefers that". She said her husband looked older than what he really did, and it drove her crazy, she hated the fact that he looked older than his actual age....and he knew it. But yet....she married him anyway? Well, she has learned from her life experience what she is and isn't attracted to. Most of us hopefully learn from past relationships. Hiwever, That 's a lot of detail to get back in a message. I used to just write...'Thanks for your interest. I appreciate your kind words. Unfortunately, I don't think we're a match. Best of wishes in your search'.
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