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Hello, cutting long story short my ex broke up with me some time ago and we both moved on. A few years down the line we recently met up and started getting to know each other again, we starting hooking up also. I started falling in love with her again.

 

One of my good friends who I had not seen for a while had come back from Uni after some time away and started spending lots of time with my ex, they started seeing each other and she basically moved onto him from me. This made me upset, jelous and angry, I reacted in such a way which for the past 3-4 months has made our very close knit group filled with drama and upset. I know I acted wrong and that I have pushed her away because of this. I know understand that I need to make an effort to be more mature and get my emotions under control. Be the man she fell in love with before. When I confronted my friend he was a dick to me and basically said he will not stop what he is doing.

 

However at new years eve we were all at a party, having not seen each other for a few months he approached me and basically told me that he had broken things off with her. He said that he liked her and that she liked him but he only did it because it was not worth the drama I had created in the group. At first I was very appreciative he had done this as I figured he cared about our friendship but I have begun to believe perhaps there is more to it.

 

Did he break it off only so they grew closer? I know she likes him and that they spent a lot of time together, but if he seems like the bigger man in her eyes does that make him even more attractive then me? We are a very close group but I dont know if he has done this to make her grow more fond of him?

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