EuTuBrute Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 I recently saw some pictures of my ex on Facebook (still friends with her on Facebook, please don't lecture me on going full NC) and i realized she wasn't as hot as i thought she was. Do you guys think this is because i am hitting indifference with her, or i was just blinded by love? Me on the other hand, I think anyways I look better than I have ever been before. The break up lead me to go to the gym at least 4 times a week. I feel great about myself for the first time in a while. Any thoughts?
blackpajamas Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Maybe both? People tend to idealize the people they are dating. Now that you have been apart, and your feelings have subsided, you see her as a real person again with flaws and imperfections.
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