k100danny Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 I was just wondering if anyone else had certain parts of the day or week were they feel more that they would like the relationship back / or feel sadder at the loss of relationship? I tend to feel worse on the evenings, my ex text me this afternoon around 12 oclock, i had had a bit of a moment of weakness last night and text her (i broke up with her) saying that our onversation on new years eve had put me back a step ect, I didnt get a reply last night and woke up this morning thinkin why why why did you text, as there was no reply in the morning i thought hmm maybe she won't reply and that's fine as there is nothing that can be said to make the situation better. then whilst at work and text chatting to a friend i see her name pop up as i had got a message, I panicked a bit and i don't really want to look at it or for it to start a conversation that will resolve nothing so i haven't looked. immediately went into my contacts folder and sent off like 5 texts to friends so even when i open my text folder i can't see it.
lostsoul4286 Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 In the morning. I feel horrible and it takes time, but I get better throughout the day.
Kevin_D Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Weekends and nights. I always picture her having a blast or sleeping in the arm of some other dude, just like we used to do.
True Gent Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Going to bed is the worst for me. I sleep on the sofa now as I can't face 'our' bed. I'm moving house and getting a new bed soon, so that problem will be fixed. However I can't stop my mind working overtime when I try going to sleep. Then when I get to sleep I dream about it all. The next morning I don't want to get up because of sleep deprivation and depression. The middle of the day is generally the best for me. Seeing friends and getting out helps a lot. The holiday season has been especially hard though...
pinkdaisy Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Mornings when I'm not at work - have to force myself to get up or I just don't. Also just before sleep, think there's something very empty about the late hours, when you know you can't really call anyone else for distraction.
TylerDurdenn Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 When I drive past her house every damn morning!
lostsoul4286 Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 When I drive past her house every damn morning! The way you put it made me laugh, but it has to be hard. I pass by my exes street when ever I have to go into the city.
Bigcitydreamer Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Mornings are always noticeably harder for me. As the day goes on I get better and come to terms with it. When I go to bed I'm usually still feeling ok but when I wake up in the morning it's like I have to come to terms with what's happening all over again.
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