Stellaone Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Hi....well story is he left me cause we were having issues fighting and then wanted a divorce cause he was stressed out with us. I tried to save us be he didn't want any of it we were long distance for a few months at the time. Well after I signed the papers he had a new gf did some snooping. Well it's been a few years and now he wants me back because they were long distance too at the time for work and she cheated a few times. He now contacted me saying he wants to work things out and we are now friends but I feel angry and am going from got to cold a lot he is deployed right now and I feel bad I'm acting like this my emotions they broke up a few months ago. I'm confused.....I still love him but I feel ill a second choice sometimes. He said he didn't leave me because her but I don't know.....help oh and if been no contact for the past 2 years.
keepontruckin Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 It's a risk that has a good chance of failing again. He left once, odds are he'll leave again. However, if that's a risk that you are willing to accept, you may find some reward in it, at least for the short term...
Mariposa10 Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Whatever you decide, this guy needs to be single for at least a year!!!! What if he's just trying to make the other woman jealous? Who knows. Take your time. If it's meant to be, it'll happen.
Omei Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 What is he willing to do to prove he truely wants you back are they just words or is he doing something about it? Its his job to make you fall in love again with him if he's simply just asking then mehhh that's what I got mehhh.
ravssss Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 jst tell him u need some good time to think about this and he'll show his true colours good or bad in the next few months ... if ur scared that he'll find someone else then again u can imagine this same thing happening even if u take up this chance right now .. so let him prove to u for some 3 months atleast and then u wud urself arrive at a decision ... but dont take him back right away ...
strive Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 Are you okay feeling second best the rest of your life? He thought he could do better than you so he left you. When things didn't work out, he comes crawling right back and decided to just settle with something familiar. If I were you I'd feel insulted.
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