spaceboy409 Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 So I am very down in the dumps as of now... I was trying to work things out with a girlfriend of 2 years, we began telling each other we loved each other again and were basically together again till the other night... I took her out to dinner, then a hockey game, then we went to a bar... at the bar she began to grind on some guy very intensely...I could tell she was drunk but I tapped her on the shoulder and said Can you please not do that... She then proceeded to tell me he was gay which I knew he wasn't, she turned things around and made me feel the like the jerk and walked off... the rest of the night she was like giving me dirty looks and avoiding me, I ran into some friends that I knew and she accused me of flirting with them and later on took my glasses and snapped them in half!!! I was left not able to see a thing and she ended up leaving me at the bar! I stayed somewhere else that night and I woke up to angry text messages from her saying I was terrible person and she was glad she broke my glasses and she hated me and so on.... While I should be glad that our toxic relationship is over, I still feel so sad. Not really for for her but just lonely cuz I had such hope that we would work things out. Im 28 and I feel like im way behind because most of my friends are married or are in serious relationships. I feel lost and broken. I know it takes time but this relationship has been back and forth for the last year so Ive never really let myself let go of her... with this new year I want to finally be happy cuz I haven't been happy in so long!! Any advice would be great...Thanks.
SurplusIndifference Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 at the bar she began to grind on some guy very intensely...I could tell she was drunk but I tapped her on the shoulder and said Can you please not do that... She then proceeded to tell me he was gay which I knew he wasn't Am I crazy to think that it doesn't matter if he is straight or gay? I'm betting she would have flipped out on you if the tables were turned.
deathandtaxes Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 You're not that old!! You just need some time to mourn this relationship and move on. Sounds like this last thing was the final nail in the coffin? Yikes! Sorry, man. That sounds like a horrible ending to an evening. Have you tried going No Contact?
organizedchaos Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 So I am very down in the dumps as of now... I was trying to work things out with a girlfriend of 2 years, we began telling each other we loved each other again and were basically together again till the other night... I took her out to dinner, then a hockey game, then we went to a bar... at the bar she began to grind on some guy very intensely...I could tell she was drunk but I tapped her on the shoulder and said Can you please not do that... She then proceeded to tell me he was gay which I knew he wasn't, she turned things around and made me feel the like the jerk and walked off... the rest of the night she was like giving me dirty looks and avoiding me, I ran into some friends that I knew and she accused me of flirting with them and later on took my glasses and snapped them in half!!! I was left not able to see a thing and she ended up leaving me at the bar! I stayed somewhere else that night and I woke up to angry text messages from her saying I was terrible person and she was glad she broke my glasses and she hated me and so on.... While I should be glad that our toxic relationship is over, I still feel so sad. Not really for for her but just lonely cuz I had such hope that we would work things out. Im 28 and I feel like im way behind because most of my friends are married or are in serious relationships. I feel lost and broken. I know it takes time but this relationship has been back and forth for the last year so Ive never really let myself let go of her... with this new year I want to finally be happy cuz I haven't been happy in so long!! Any advice would be great...Thanks. Good riddence. And at 28 you are way behind NOTHING! Are you serious?
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