never__again Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 I read the threads supplied by DOWNTOWN. Thought about our relationship, her actions when she became enraged, and reading some of her recent text. My first thought was, ya, that describes her. Then my second thought was, with this new knowledge and insight, maybe we can sit down, and talk this out. I pondered, and thought, then i went to bed. I really wanted to send her a text, but i summoned up all strength and did not. The next day, i received a text from her. Before i read it, i sat and thought about things, and pondered. I tried tried to remove myself emotionally before i read the text. It was very easy to try to say to myself, this is a reaction from a child. I am not a trained psychologist or anything, so i pondered more, and read it again. Yes, the maturity level was low, and i always felt like i was dating a jr high girl. My point being is it was very easy due to articles read to paint her as bi-polar, but thats not for me to decide. My conclusion in all this is either way, her behavior and outbreaks are something that i cannot allow, regardless of what psychological label is put on her. Not trying to fix or change her, going to work on treating me better. I am not saying this is going to be easy, but i can move on, begin to heal, embrace the new year! 1
Author never__again Posted January 2, 2014 Author Posted January 2, 2014 She never apologized to me for her anger outburst, throwing stuff, slamming doors yelling profanities etc. She did say she was sorry for "being inadequate" and all kinds of other crap.
Mondmellonw Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 She never apologized to me for her anger outburst, throwing stuff, slamming doors yelling profanities etc. She did say she was sorry for "being inadequate" and all kinds of other crap. Would you feel better if she apologized for real? I'm guessing she isn't going to do that, since she can't seem to understand what her part on the relationship was. I'm sorry you went trough this. Somehow, I felt interest on your post cause I made some terrible mistakes on my last relationship. I apologized but got no response, it's been a while since that. I apologized, even after he offended me, I never did that to him. I really hope you get better after all of this.
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