from Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 I've been seeing a girl for almost two months and sometimes when we do not have an exact day scheduled to see each other, I get this weird feeling in my stomach. I have no idea what it is but it feels terrible. I miss her and just want her by my side. When I am busy or working, I still miss her but do not have this feeling in my stomach. I hate it and it feels like the world is crashing down around me. I hate that I feel this way...feels weak which I do not think I am. There have been a few times where one of us left in the morning from the others apartment and within an hour or two, I get that feeling where I yearn for her to be right next to me. All I want to do is make her laugh, smile and protect her. This doesn't feel normal. 1
regine_phalange Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 I've been seeing a girl for almost two months and sometimes when we do not have an exact day scheduled to see each other, I get this weird feeling in my stomach. I have no idea what it is but it feels terrible. I miss her and just want her by my side. When I am busy or working, I still miss her but do not have this feeling in my stomach. I hate it and it feels like the world is crashing down around me. I hate that I feel this way...feels weak which I do not think I am. There have been a few times where one of us left in the morning from the others apartment and within an hour or two, I get that feeling where I yearn for her to be right next to me. All I want to do is make her laugh, smile and protect her. This doesn't feel normal. You are a sweetheart! I miss that feeling. When I'm in love, I feel sick to my stomach for quite some time, except when Im with him. I'm not a clingy person though. At all! It's unpleasant and amazing at the same time. 1
Author from Posted January 2, 2014 Author Posted January 2, 2014 You are a sweetheart! I miss that feeling. When I'm in love, I feel sick to my stomach for quite some time, except when Im with him. I'm not a clingy person though. At all! It's unpleasant and amazing at the same time. Exactly. I'm not clingy either and usually allow her to initiate texts as I prefer in-person interactions..especially with her. If she knew how crazy I am about her, she may run!
Iguanna Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 If she knew how crazy I am about her, she may run! If she runs, then she ain't that special now, is she? Why are people scared to show their true feelings? "I love you, I miss you, I spent my day thinking about you". Aren't these words we all wanna hear? Why are we scared to say them? I'm not scared of people with feelings. I'm scared of people without feelings, cold hearted, insensitive. I dislike and pity people who are scared to be hurt out of love. If only they knew what they miss... 1
Grumpybutfun Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 I've been seeing a girl for almost two months and sometimes when we do not have an exact day scheduled to see each other, I get this weird feeling in my stomach. I have no idea what it is but it feels terrible. I miss her and just want her by my side. When I am busy or working, I still miss her but do not have this feeling in my stomach. I hate it and it feels like the world is crashing down around me. I hate that I feel this way...feels weak which I do not think I am. There have been a few times where one of us left in the morning from the others apartment and within an hour or two, I get that feeling where I yearn for her to be right next to me. All I want to do is make her laugh, smile and protect her. This doesn't feel normal. I remember when I felt like this for the first time with my wife. I seriously thought I was ill and went to the doctor because I I thought I had appendicitis. I wasn't a kid either and had dated scores of attractive and sweet women. When I fell for this cute little girl my entire world felt like it just rolled off its axis. We have been married for twenty years and sometimes when she walks out the door to go somewhere after a particularly loving encounter I still get that pain in my side. I had my appendix taken out years ago so I am pretty sure what it is now. Just keep going in the direction you are going. Love is a great adventure and if it lasts is entirely up to you two. The yearning to be with and protect never goes away no matter how long you are with them. It sounds like you appreciate and value this relationship and that is a very positive thing. G 3
Author from Posted January 2, 2014 Author Posted January 2, 2014 If she runs, then she ain't that special now, is she? Why are people scared to show their true feelings? "I love you, I miss you, I spent my day thinking about you". Aren't these words we all wanna hear? Why are we scared to say them? I'm not scared of people with feelings. I'm scared of people without feelings, cold hearted, insensitive. I dislike and pity people who are scared to be hurt out of love. If only they knew what they miss... Been with her for a relatively short time and we just became official boyfriend/girlfriend even though we both agreed to be exclusive as soon as we met. I think it says a lot about our feelings for each other since we both just got out of long-term relationships. I want to tell her I love her but the anxiety (I am not a nervous person) that comes with her possible reaction is ridiculous. I think that she loves me but I think that neither of us want to be the first to say it in case it is too early. I think that she is amazing and I have no idea where this relationship will go but I cannot imagine myself with anyone else right now nor do I want to.
Author from Posted January 2, 2014 Author Posted January 2, 2014 I remember when I felt like this for the first time with my wife. I seriously thought I was ill and went to the doctor because I I thought I had appendicitis. I wasn't a kid either and had dated scores of attractive and sweet women. When I fell for this cute little girl my entire world felt like it just rolled off its axis. We have been married for twenty years and sometimes when she walks out the door to go somewhere after a particularly loving encounter I still get that pain in my side. I had my appendix taken out years ago so I am pretty sure what it is now. Just keep going in the direction you are going. Love is a great adventure and if it lasts is entirely up to you two. The yearning to be with and protect never goes away no matter how long you are with them. It sounds like you appreciate and value this relationship and that is a very positive thing. G Word. Much appreciated and I'm happy for you and your wife! I've never taken any medication and never will but when this feeling occurs, I thought that I needed some sort of medication, haha.
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