I'm Such a Fool || How I Got Over Her

[StringsAttached]

Ok so I found out my ex who've i've been on and off with for about 2 years who's treated me like absolute **** (it was a very emotionally abusive relationship) dumped me for a lesser man. A thug who barely makes minimum wage and she settled for him all because he's Christian. Now this was the first girl i've ever loved. I've been in relationships but never truly opened up and this is how I got repaid. I got played. Simple as.

 

I'm Muslim and her reason for dumping me was the 'children' and how I would not have been a suitable father for them. I'm a University student getting a reasonably good GPA (it fell because of breakup depression) and pretty soon will complete my undergrad. She got me emotionally invested in this relationship. Financially invested. Spiritually invested and dumped me via text. Not even a phone call.

 

Anyways she dumped me for this reason and I can't ****ing believe I loved this girl once...I dumped my previous ex who was a good girl and loved me and this is what I get. This was karma.

 

The mind games, the songs I shared with her, the sleepless nights, the depression, the eating disorder, the weight loss, the waking up at 5AM to think about her. It was all ****ing bull**** and I reached my boiling point.

 

I broke NC told her straight up my feelings I raged, I vented and I feel so ****ing GOOD! I feel like this was all a bad nightmare and i'm finally waking up from it. She played those mind games with me, she almost destroyed me and then I find out she's with an uneducated thug who doesn't even have a highschool diploma.

 

What did she see in this guy besides the fact that he wears baggy pants and wears his lifes savings around his neck? I was played!

 

Anyways rant over, I msgd the dude too, to get revenge on this bitch told her what she truly is and it's like equilibrium has been restored.

 

She admitted to playing me and playing mind games on me so I got back at her too. Was it the best approach? No. Did I take the high road? No. But she deserved it and she deserves the unhappy life and endless beatings she's going to get from this guy.

 

**** you, **** your life and all the tears I shed for you. I'm finally over you.

 

Thanks for reading guys I had to share.

Edited January 2, 2014 by StringsAttached

[MoooOinkBaaa]

lol you wasted your time. she hurt you and now she's laughing because you're still not over it, you're just angry about it now. you didn't achieve revenge by showing how angry you are at her. revenge would of been moving on and becoming happy, being angry isn't happy.

 

you gave them both a massive ego boost letting them know how much power they both have over you to control your emotions. probs was doing cart wheels down the street.

 

also so what if this guy doesn't have as much money as you or as good education.

 

You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your ****ing khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.

 

Money has no bearing on a relationship for me, otherwise I'd date a sugar mommy.

 

http://www.cyburbia.org/gallery/data/6160/singer-successful-man.gif

[Mariposa10]

You shouldn't have contacted him. I can understand breaking NC, but never contacting the new guy/girl...that was a really bad move. What did the guy say? You can even get into trouble... so be careful.

 

Also, next time if you're not happy in a relationship just leave that relationship. Don't wait to have someone lined up before leaving.

 

 

You'll be completely over here when you feel indifferent towards her.

 

Good luck, go out, re-connect with friends and family.

[StringsAttached]

lol you wasted your time. she hurt you and now she's laughing because you're still not over it, you're just angry about it now. you didn't achieve revenge by showing how angry you are at her. revenge would of been moving on and becoming happy, being angry isn't happy.

 

you gave them both a massive ego boost letting them know how much power they both have over you to control your emotions. probs was doing cart wheels down the street.

 

also so what if this guy doesn't have as much money as you or as good education.

 

You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your ****ing khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.

 

Money has no bearing on a relationship for me, otherwise I'd date a sugar mommy.

 

http://www.cyburbia.org/gallery/data/6160/singer-successful-man.gif

 

That's the funny thing. I honestly don't even feel for this woman anymore. I'm finally back to my pre-relationship ways...i'm better than that guy in every way shape and form at least I know that she regressed instead of progress. She's a habitual liar and she'll do anythig to get her way including using people. Just because I ranted about it doesn't mean i'm not over her. There is no more jealously. No lust, no thoughts of getting back together. She lost. And i'm FREEE!!!!

[StringsAttached]

You shouldn't have contacted him. I can understand breaking NC, but never contacting the new guy/girl...that was a really bad move. What did the guy say? You can even get into trouble... so be careful.

 

Also, next time if you're not happy in a relationship just leave that relationship. Don't wait to have someone lined up before leaving.

 

 

You'll be completely over here when you feel indifferent towards her.

 

Good luck, go out, re-connect with friends and family.

 

I told him basically how she used me and what not, their relationship is an exact duplicate of how ours started so I gave him a head's up. I even told him good luck. I harbor no resentment towards him...but her. She was another story.

Edited January 2, 2014 by StringsAttached

[SurplusIndifference]

You are not over her, not even close.