julzfromsa Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 Hi all. Just would like some advice. So the ex contactacted me after 2 months. We were engaged and were together 11 years before she got gigs. Non the less I ended up devastated. I have had strict NC since the break up. Her message went as such. Hi julzfromsa. Tried calling you but I cannot get through. When will be coming to pick up the rest of your stuff. Well, I can see that you are doing very WELL!!!!! Obviously she has been snooping around my FB because I've made new girl friends, been training, looking after myself. I'm not going to take much from that message at all. Means nothing really. Just will carry on doing the same as before. I responded with. I'll liaise with grandad and arrange for pickup. What do u guys think.
strive Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 You did good! Only respond about how to get your things. She's obviously fishing for information, don't tell her anything! Stay strong. 2
Author julzfromsa Posted January 2, 2014 Author Posted January 2, 2014 You did good! Only respond about how to get your things. She's obviously fishing for information, don't tell her anything! Stay strong. I will not say a damn thing more. Im not even chatting to her about my stuff. Trying to bypass her in everyway possible. I think I'm starting to realize that whatever she does, say, or behave. It's over and she doesn't want it. No point in trying to see fairies in the mist when there are only devils.
Author julzfromsa Posted January 2, 2014 Author Posted January 2, 2014 still have the urge to say something.. doesnt anyone have a "destroy Ex Life button somewhere"??? Just kidding. 2
OrangeSnack Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 Stay strong my friend. Looks like you are doing well 1
Author julzfromsa Posted January 2, 2014 Author Posted January 2, 2014 Stay strong my friend. Looks like you are doing well thanks guys - trying my best to do well. Its a effort
headinthecloud Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 I think your response was very appropriate. My advice is clearout your belongings and cut all ties...don't give her a reason to be in touch with you. If she is cyberstalking you, you should not care. She should no longer exist in your mind once you've cut all ties. Good luck, my friend. 2
LostConfused123 Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 still have the urge to say something.. doesnt anyone have a "destroy Ex Life button somewhere"??? Just kidding. Oh snap!!! Good one!! Literally made me laugh out loud I wish you strength and a wonderful new year!!
barky2 Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 still have the urge to say something.. doesnt anyone have a "destroy Ex Life button somewhere"??? Just kidding. I DO I DO!!!!! It's called move ON and live a HAPPY LIFE WITHOUT THEM! They don't want to see you doing good, and not pretending,but actually doing good. It burns their ass pretttttty good. But do it for yourself not them Oh and ps, you handled it well. Setup for the time to get her stuff picked up, then cut that cord, for your own well being. Barky 1
Author julzfromsa Posted January 2, 2014 Author Posted January 2, 2014 Guys thank you. Without this community I would be in a much worse place. So i have called the movers and they will deal with the admin because I just won't talk to her about it. I refuse. Done! I like the destroy ex life button barky. It's one that's prob healthy for everyone involved. Will post soon. Julz 1
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