PinkInTheLimo Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 Their sophistication and experience is actually a turn-off to me, which is really strange. Maybe its just a phase? I enjoy the messy, train wreck situations that young women have to offer(joke,exaggeration). I find it exciting. I like being someone they can talk to who is not just interested in screwing them. Kind of like a silent mentor who will let them make their own choices without interfering like a father would. I like the dynamic that exists within that type of love affair. It sounds like you want to "save"' these younger women and be some kind of baken of maturity. Which you are not and the older sophisticated women see it. It makes me think of a guy in my evening course. He is one of the single guys out there and as soon as you see him you understand why. He is a bit strange, dressed in an old-fashioned way, does not know so well how to behave. On top of this, I suspect he has an alcohol problem because he has the physical features of one plus whenever we have a break between glasses, he gulps down a glass of wine in the student bar. Most quality women in the evening course are friendly and polite to him but we would never ever see him as relationship potential. The guy is 40 BTW. Now let me introduce you to the biggest wreck in the evening course. A girl of almost 29 who is in the process of divorcing her second husband. Yes she is tall and rather slim and she has long blond hair but a really ugly face and she has an eye problem (one eye is strangely turned), which makes her visually disabled. Now of course she can't help that and I give her credit for still doing the evening course which is a really tough one. But the woman is messed up. She should be on her own for a while to figure out what she wants from a relationship instead of jumping from one relationship into another, most probably because she can't be on her own. Well guess who are a couple now? Loser guy with loser girl. Two months ago she was still married to her husband. His brother is a lawyer who is helping her with the divorce and I guess he is helping her out with the divorce as well. I think that if you like a messed up girl it means that you are messed up yourself. But hey if that's what you want go ahead. The only thing is that life is short, or as Dr. Phil says "Life ain't a dress rehearsal." So if you don't want to have a great quality life, you won't have one. One thing you should not forget is that we women also judge a guy by his ex-partners. At my age I prefer a guy who has been married with kids and a serious relationship rather than some guy who wanted to save younger women who were messed up.
FitChick Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 If you are sure you don't want kids, get a vasectomy. Then date and screw any woman you want. Younger women are more fertile and many want a baby daddy to pay for their kid. Older women in their forties may want a last minute baby for the same reason -- it'll be paid for. You will pay no matter who you impregnate. I have no sympathy for men who say they never wanted kids but never got "the snip" and find themselves with progeny to support and all the drama that goes with the mothers. I never wanted kids and when one boyfriend "joked" about hiding my birth control pills or putting holes in condoms, I made sure I could never get pregnant. I prefer younger men for the same reason you prefer younger women. They look better and, on a practical note, I plan to get married and know statistically men die about eight years before women do, which is why you see so many old women and few old men. The women married older. Usually all the couples' savings go toward the man's end of life care and after he's dead, the woman is left destitute and alone. 1
Author SmartDude Posted January 3, 2014 Author Posted January 3, 2014 It sounds like you want to "save"' these younger women and be some kind of baken of maturity. Which you are not and the older sophisticated women see it. It makes me think of a guy in my evening course. He is one of the single guys out there and as soon as you see him you understand why. He is a bit strange, dressed in an old-fashioned way, does not know so well how to behave. On top of this, I suspect he has an alcohol problem because he has the physical features of one plus whenever we have a break between glasses, he gulps down a glass of wine in the student bar. Most quality women in the evening course are friendly and polite to him but we would never ever see him as relationship potential. The guy is 40 BTW. Now let me introduce you to the biggest wreck in the evening course. A girl of almost 29 who is in the process of divorcing her second husband. Yes she is tall and rather slim and she has long blond hair but a really ugly face and she has an eye problem (one eye is strangely turned), which makes her visually disabled. Now of course she can't help that and I give her credit for still doing the evening course which is a really tough one. But the woman is messed up. She should be on her own for a while to figure out what she wants from a relationship instead of jumping from one relationship into another, most probably because she can't be on her own. Well guess who are a couple now? Loser guy with loser girl. Two months ago she was still married to her husband. His brother is a lawyer who is helping her with the divorce and I guess he is helping her out with the divorce as well. I think that if you like a messed up girl it means that you are messed up yourself. But hey if that's what you want go ahead. The only thing is that life is short, or as Dr. Phil says "Life ain't a dress rehearsal." So if you don't want to have a great quality life, you won't have one. One thing you should not forget is that we women also judge a guy by his ex-partners. At my age I prefer a guy who has been married with kids and a serious relationship rather than some guy who wanted to save younger women who were messed up. It is humorous that people are attacking me saying I am immature. As if having a family= maturity or whatever is in your incorrect perception. There is real sophistication and intelligence and then there is worldly sophistication. I do not even bother with the second type. I perceive them as being like children. Some of the cafemom dot com types as well, do not get along with me, nor I with them. They try to paint me as immature not realizing I have transcended their more "primitive" concept of maturity. They see a free male mind as a threat. I guess it was just from spending to much time being married and having a doormat of a husband? Baking cookies for their children and going to church and stuff? Then they meet me and I tear their little world apart To hell with them, they deserve it 99% of the time. They never see it coming though. And as far as women knowing about my previous partners? What they don't know won't hurt them.
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