xRJ85x Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 Hopefully no one's NYE was as awesome as mine was last night... I've been dating a girl for a little over a month now, we've gone on about 5-6 dates (some official, some just hanging out on the couch with each other). Everything had been perfect, even despite having to turn down a couple requests on my part because of holiday parties, she would still text me the day after. This was all good the day before NYE when after some small talk, I told her to let me know when she was free next. She said she was shot for the weekend with a friend coming to visit, but asked me to hang out on new year's day. I replied that I was free, and never heard anything back from her after that. She was skiing the next day with her family so I didn't expect to hear anything until later. The clock struck 12, and I waited 10 mins to see if she said anything. I finally texted her happy new year, to which she replied the same. I added a joke request for a kiss, to which she didn't reply. I check her instagram, and she had posted a picture with friends way after I had sent the text. So she definitely saw it, but ignored it. I still didn't hear anything about hanging out on new year's day, so I sent her a text today around noon telling her I was headed out with friends for a bit but if she was still free later since she asked me. She got back saying she thought she was gonna be around, but her new roommate was moving in earlier than expected so she had to head back home early. I simply said ok, I'll talk to you later then. Most of my good friends (girls and guys) think she's being legitimately honest and I'm just overreacting and need to give her a few days and relax. I've had girls pulling a 180 on me before, so its why I worry. This just doesn't make sense at all though. Does anyone agree I have nothing to worry about?
MrMeh Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 She knows you're interested. Let her initiate the conversation from now on, or at least for a while.
d0nnivain Posted January 2, 2014 Posted January 2, 2014 She's living her life: skiing with family & getting a new roommate. That's all. that behavior, by itself, doesn't indicate she's breaking up with you. Ask her on a date for Saturday.
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