Mondmellonw Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 Ok. Basically, he was my boyfriend. I had a lot of nice dates with him, but he didn't even knew the coffee shops before he knew me... He tried to invite me a lot of times. I said yes only once but we only had one beer. There were many times when he asked "when are we going to drink together?" like if it was such a great event in our lifes. Since I'm not a drinker, it was weird to me... But what does this mean? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 It doesn't mean anything. He's a drinker. There is no significance to it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 2, 2014 Author Share Posted January 2, 2014 It doesn't mean anything. He's a drinker. There is no significance to it. So, he did it just because he wanted to drink with me? Link to post Share on other sites
ParadisA330 Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 He wanted to take you to his place and get drunk, like he does with his boys, but with you...and with hopes of sleeping with you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 2, 2014 Author Share Posted January 2, 2014 He wanted to take you to his place and get drunk, like he does with his boys, but with you...and with hopes of sleeping with you. That's what I tought. But since no other guys ever invited me to go drink with them I had to ask. Also, I need men's perspective on this. I want to know if this is a normal kind of date, or if they really only want to get laid. I don't like this kind of situation. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 It's a normal date. Even if he took you someplace without alcohol, that doesn't mean he doesn't want to get laid. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
odin673 Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 That's what I tought. But since no other guys ever invited me to go drink with them I had to ask. Also, I need men's perspective on this. I want to know if this is a normal kind of date, or if they really only want to get laid. I don't like this kind of situation. Just a cheap date to talk. In modern day kill or be killed dating environment it doesn't make sense to spend a lot on a first date when there is a good chance the woman could flake. Especially OLD. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 2, 2014 Author Share Posted January 2, 2014 Just a cheap date to talk. In modern day kill or be killed dating environment it doesn't make sense to spend a lot on a first date when there is a good chance the woman could flake. Especially OLD. That's the point. We were on a relationship, no longer on the dating phase. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 2, 2014 Author Share Posted January 2, 2014 It's a normal date. Even if he took you someplace without alcohol, that doesn't mean he doesn't want to get laid. Well, that's truth. He always said there was no pressure on the sex thing, that's why I wanted to ask, however, he always expressed his desire to make it happen. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 Well, that's truth. He always said there was no pressure on the sex thing, that's why I wanted to ask, however, he always expressed his desire to make it happen. He sounds like every other man. What is the problem? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 2, 2014 Author Share Posted January 2, 2014 He sounds like every other man. What is the problem? Problem is he asked me a lot of times to go drink with him. The last time I refused he would immediately start kissing me like crazy. I just want to know how to tell when they only want that from you. Link to post Share on other sites
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