SunsetRed Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 Yes it hurts, and wait until you run into them in public one time. They'll look happy then too and you'll see what a lying POS the MM is. Use this as fuel to keep up the NC and move on.
BlueBobby Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 It's practically masochistic at this point. I can't help but look, and all it does is hurt me. I don't even know why it hurts me because I would never want him even if he left her. I would always expect him to cheat on me too. Looking at her in the picture felt like I was completely violating her. I'm looking at this woman who has no idea I exist. She has no idea what she really married. It's all so twisted. I hate it. I hate ever being involved. I hate that "men" like him exist. If you can't be with one woman, don't get married. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry for doing what I did to another woman. I have a feeling the next thing you'll do is try and anonymously let his wife know he has cheated. You know, cause you feel so bad for her. Not because you are angry at him, but because you feel bad for her.
BlueBobby Posted January 4, 2014 Posted January 4, 2014 I do want to say though. You are better than this, if you are over him move on. A smiling picture together means nothing. Nothing at all.
Cocochai Posted January 5, 2014 Posted January 5, 2014 I know it's not a dagger at me but it seems like once you initiate NC and tell him how you feel, the XMM starts to put a family profile up and even updated his cover w/ the two of them from years ago?? He told me his BS created his FB page so I wonder if she found out something and did it to make a statement. Sorry I need to take my own advise and never lurk..
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