conmorse Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Last night I went out and enjoyed myself during new years eve. This morning I woke up feeling a little down and find myself missing her a lot. I've been in NC for 4 weeks and I'm tempted to break it. I know it's a new year, a fresh start and a new beginning, but I feel like i still have some baggage left over.
Simon Phoenix Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 You had a good day on Tuesday, having a tough day on Wednesday. The 2014/2013 thing doesn't really matter. Just resist the urge to contact and keep NC.
Author conmorse Posted January 1, 2014 Author Posted January 1, 2014 You had a good day on Tuesday, having a tough day on Wednesday. The 2014/2013 thing doesn't really matter. Just resist the urge to contact and keep NC. Simon, Do you mind reading my other thread and giving me some insight? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/451906-how-handle-tempted-break-nc thanks.
iouaname Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Breaking NC will only be giving yourself permission to not move on. Don't bother. Stay NC and focus on your own goals for the new year. 1
headinthecloud Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 You need more time to heal. By end of February you should be feeling better and by April you will be a completely different person...that is as long as you stay NC! It's so crucial to not respond to your ex under any circumstances and stop cyberstalking them. It's super hard but you will overcome this. I promise, you'll start feeling more emotionally stable in 2 mos. just be patient with yourself. 1
headinthecloud Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Breaking NC will only be giving yourself permission to not move on. Don't bother. Stay NC and focus on your own goals for the new year. ^^^ excellent advice!
Author conmorse Posted January 1, 2014 Author Posted January 1, 2014 You need more time to heal. By end of February you should be feeling better and by April you will be a completely different person...that is as long as you stay NC! It's so crucial to not respond to your ex under any circumstances and stop cyberstalking them. It's super hard but you will overcome this. I promise, you'll start feeling more emotionally stable in 2 mos. just be patient with yourself. Thanks for the advise. Would you be able to check out my other thread and provide me some more feedback? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/451906-how-handle-tempted-break-nc
pickflicker Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Breaking NC won't fix the rut, it'll only dig it deeper. Maintain NC. The change in year is meaningless, you'll have up and down days. 1
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