Leykis1o1 Posted January 7, 2005 Posted January 7, 2005 i met this girl in mid december and we hit it off..first off i met her from Myspace..anyways so she came over and we spent just 2 hours getting to know one another....i really wanted this girl so i played kinda mr un-impressed hard to get.we agreed to go on a date..the date is this coming monday..yah like 2-1/2 weeks in between seeing her last ...anyways after walking her to her car and giving her a hug goodnight she plants a kiss on me very unexpectedly.wow that was cool ..ok so we talk about once a week..and then on new years we talk..she is working so she couldnt hang out with me at a party..anyways so that night we hooked up at her old dorm room..she had a key....it got explicit..but no sex....i said why she said cause i dont know you..ok i understand that..but we just got naked together!!..kinda confusing..but ok..so we still have this date we planned..coming this monday..im getting excited but i have a problem i am almost sure she is seeing other people..im not into dating a girl for months on end without sex and commitment and a relationship... what should i do? wait a few more dates before asking her if she is dating anyone else...cause i want a relationship with her....she is drop dead gorgeous and she has everything going for her....what should i say to her to convince her to be commiteted to me or want a relationship....she might want one..im not sure...should i ask her this stuff and press my feelings..and if her answers dont fly say this is our last night? what should i say and how , when a timeline!! ideas
iceisles Posted January 7, 2005 Posted January 7, 2005 Originally posted by Leykis1o1 i met this girl in mid december and we hit it off..first off i met her from Myspace..anyways so she came over and we spent just 2 hours getting to know one another....i really wanted this girl so i played kinda mr un-impressed hard to get.we agreed to go on a date..the date is this coming monday..yah like 2-1/2 weeks in between seeing her last ...anyways after walking her to her car and giving her a hug goodnight she plants a kiss on me very unexpectedly.wow that was cool ..ok so we talk about once a week..and then on new years we talk..she is working so she couldnt hang out with me at a party..anyways so that night we hooked up at her old dorm room..she had a key....it got explicit..but no sex....i said why she said cause i dont know you..ok i understand that..but we just got naked together!!..kinda confusing..but ok..so we still have this date we planned..coming this monday..im getting excited but i have a problem i am almost sure she is seeing other people..im not into dating a girl for months on end without sex and commitment and a relationship... what should i do? wait a few more dates before asking her if she is dating anyone else...cause i want a relationship with her....she is drop dead gorgeous and she has everything going for her....what should i say to her to convince her to be commiteted to me or want a relationship....she might want one..im not sure...should i ask her this stuff and press my feelings..and if her answers dont fly say this is our last night? what should i say and how , when a timeline!! ideas It sounds like you are a little too concerned about the sex part. That aside, I would ask her right now if she is seeing anyone. Explain what you are looking for and see if she feels the same. There is nothing magical you can say to make her want to be with you - just be open and honest with your feelings. The fact that she fooled around with you may be a sign of romantic interest, but that is not always the case, of course. I would definitely find out right away, but be polite if she said that she is seeing or is interested in someone else. Good luck.
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