secretglider Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Just over a year ago, I met a girl at a mutual friend's birthday party. We hit it off really great, right from the moment we met and spent most of the night talking and dancing together. The furthest we went was just a kiss on the cheek. She gave me her number and we added each other on Facebook. I contacted her a few days later but she never replied. I just assumed she wasn't interested. After all, we live over 2 hours apart from each other. Fast forward to this year, at the same mutual friend's birthday party. From the moment she arrived, we chatted, danced and kissed. Felt like we'd just continued on from where we left off the previous year. We ended up sharing a bed, cuddled but nothing more from there. The following day, we spent the whole day together and got on really well. According to a friend, when asked if she wanted to sleep with me that night, her response was "I like him too much to do that". Read into that what you will. I really like her and we get on really well, so as with the previous year, I contacted her saying how much I enjoyed her company and I'd love to see her again. She replied back saying roughly the same. But then everything I suggested we do she was busy or just didn't really for days. It is now six weeks later and I haven't seen her. I'm just so confused about her actions, sometimes she is really responsive other times she's not. I'd like a relationship, but have no idea how to progress this any further. Sometimes I get the feeling she wants a relationship, but other times it feels like I'm just being played with. Any suggestions where I go from here? I have no idea how to read her at the moment.
Scales Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Whether she likes you or not, one thing is for sure: she is a flake. Don't beat any doors down trying to get her attention. If she is really interested she will make efforts to make it happen. It sounds to me that she likes the attention or she was waiting for you to make a move. I wouldn't quite give up yet. But if she doesn't respond after another few weeks, just let it go and sleep with her after next years party
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