mortensorchid Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 I went to a New Year's Eve party tonight, a small gathering at a friend's house of barely 15 people. To review the latest goings on, see my previous threads about Mr. Wishy Washy. Last we spoke was on Christmas Eve, we had not seen one another in the flesh for a few weeks. He was being wishy washy, he doesn't want to be serious or settle down. I said fine (even though I wasn't fine with it) and got busy doing other things. All of a sudden about 3 weeks ago another came into the picture unexpectedly at a karaoke night. Since then, Mr. Rebound Man and I have gone out a few times and have chatted over the IM. He's a good guy, one thing bothers me about him is that he's a bit of a goofball but otherwise he seems ok. So at about 11 pm, in walks WW. I froze for a second, I didn't think I would see him that night, we had not seen each other in the flesh for about a month but interacted only through those few phone calls and some Facebook banter. I said hello to him, thinking that would be it and there was no reason to avoid him. Instead of just saying hello back and going on his merry way, he pins me between him and the counter and says "I missed you." "Oh..." He said something sexual towards me (I will not repeat it but use your imagination) and he leans in and kisses me. I froze, I wasn't expecting this. Plus I seem to now have two boyfriends in the same room. Fortunately for me RM did not see. He said he wanted to come back to my place with me that night. I didn't know what to say to this, all of a sudden I went from being avoided/ignored to being the object of desire again. I was ... Frozen is the only word to describe it. Someone did or said something to distract, we broke apart when midnight came around and we all toasted and sang. I came back to WW after we'd spent a lot of time apart and he said he was a bit tipsy from the drinking earlier that night. He said he didn't want to come over to my place that night. I said "Ok then ...". We said our good-byes and RM says he was about to walk me to my car. And RM kissed me good-bye. I was like "I hope I handled that ok". Just a story to share. 1
gaius Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 I have a feeling you're going to get grief for this morten but I enjoyed it. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 I went to a New Year's Eve party tonight, a small gathering at a friend's house of barely 15 people. To review the latest goings on, see my previous threads about Mr. Wishy Washy. Last we spoke was on Christmas Eve, we had not seen one another in the flesh for a few weeks. He was being wishy washy, he doesn't want to be serious or settle down. I said fine (even though I wasn't fine with it) and got busy doing other things. All of a sudden about 3 weeks ago another came into the picture unexpectedly at a karaoke night. Since then, Mr. Rebound Man and I have gone out a few times and have chatted over the IM. He's a good guy, one thing bothers me about him is that he's a bit of a goofball but otherwise he seems ok. So at about 11 pm, in walks WW. I froze for a second, I didn't think I would see him that night, we had not seen each other in the flesh for about a month but interacted only through those few phone calls and some Facebook banter. I said hello to him, thinking that would be it and there was no reason to avoid him. Instead of just saying hello back and going on his merry way, he pins me between him and the counter and says "I missed you." "Oh..." He said something sexual towards me (I will not repeat it but use your imagination) and he leans in and kisses me. I froze, I wasn't expecting this. Plus I seem to now have two boyfriends in the same room. Fortunately for me RM did not see. He said he wanted to come back to my place with me that night. I didn't know what to say to this, all of a sudden I went from being avoided/ignored to being the object of desire again. I was ... Frozen is the only word to describe it. Someone did or said something to distract, we broke apart when midnight came around and we all toasted and sang. I came back to WW after we'd spent a lot of time apart and he said he was a bit tipsy from the drinking earlier that night. He said he didn't want to come over to my place that night. I said "Ok then ...". We said our good-byes and RM says he was about to walk me to my car. And RM kissed me good-bye. I was like "I hope I handled that ok". Just a story to share. He's completely full of crap. He wanted to come with you but got all butthurt when you rejected his advances. So, to save his bruised ego, he pretends he didn't want you anyway. (Is he 5?) Good for you for keeping your distance. He's interested in only one thing. Don't give him the satisfaction.
FitChick Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 The reason he was wishy washy with you was because he had an inflated opinion of his own attractiveness. Why should he limit himself to one woman when there are hundreds of them who will want him! Looks like he found out the opposite. He thought you still liked him and would be easy. Joke's on him. Sounds like Rebound Man will be more than a rebound. 1
gaius Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 I didn't see anything in her post about rejecting him. Sounds like she didn't know what to do, left rebound man later to go talk to rico suave again and he stopped being interested. So then she let rebound guy walk her to the car like a gentleman and give her a kiss. He's doing everything society says he should be doing and mortens mind is still busy racing about rico instead. Correct me if I'm wrong about anything.
Author mortensorchid Posted January 1, 2014 Author Posted January 1, 2014 WW called this afternoon and asked to see me today. I told him I have to be up early for something tomorrow. Looks like the first OP was right, only after one thing. I feel like Cher. Ha ha ha ...
Versacehottie Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 WW called this afternoon and asked to see me today. I told him I have to be up early for something tomorrow. Looks like the first OP was right, only after one thing. I feel like Cher. Ha ha ha ... Really?? I'm not sure it means that. It could equally mean something good. Make him jump through some hoops to see what his real intentions are and if he is still going to be wishy washy. It sounds like you like him a lot. If you feel a lot for him, why not see where it could go if he's in a different place now? Though I want to emphasize, make him jump through some hoops to get the date or on the date to check his intentions and readiness. Good luck
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