freebird31 Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Need to vent. The one thing that i truly miss about having a boyfriend was having someone to go on adventures with. I cant really do many adventures alone. And yeah, i do have friends, but only very few. And one of my best friends i have is growing apart from me and we are too different now. I really miss having someone to be like "Hey , lets go viit this place at so and so." And my ex was always down for the adventure. I honestly would rather stay home than go out with my these so called "friends." I def have trust issues, and i only like to keep few people close to me. And my best friend really hurt me this past summer and to this day has never said sorry....I just really miss having a companion to share experiences with. I cant really go on adventures alone...i liked having a boyfriend. blah. idk 1
HorseLuck Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 I'm familiar with that feeling. Try looking around for some meet-up groups in your area. Establishing new friendships might do the trick.
Author freebird31 Posted January 1, 2014 Author Posted January 1, 2014 (edited) Yea ...im just super private. When i had a boyfriend for the first time, I really felt whole. Its like i was able to do all these things and visit all these places I couldnt do when I was alone. It was awesome in every way. I guess I need a best friend, someone I can count on. Thats hard to find. Im glad I am not the only one feeling this way, that makes me feel a lot better knowing im not just crazy or weird ..lol Edited January 1, 2014 by freebird31
LadyM Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Yes! I know exactly what you mean about adventures. My ex and I were always out and about, exploring new places, old places, driving here and there or traveling. I have no one to do that with now. So that part of my life has come to a screeching halt, and I miss it SO much. Now, I mostly stay at home or go out for dinner with the occasional friend. All the really happy and exciting parts of my life are over. 1
Author freebird31 Posted January 1, 2014 Author Posted January 1, 2014 Yes! I know exactly what you mean about adventures. My ex and I were always out and about, exploring new places, old places, driving here and there or traveling. I have no one to do that with now. So that part of my life has come to a screeching halt, and I miss it SO much. Now, I mostly stay at home or go out for dinner with the occasional friend. All the really happy and exciting parts of my life are over. Ugh LadyM, maybe thats the source of our problem. Our exes left us, and took the fun and exciting times along with them. I miss it too. Like this New Years, I am just...home. I dont really want to go out with my "friends." sigh. Right now I would be in LA with someone who i could enjoy company with, watching that awesome LA new years eve event theyre having this year. Instead....I am home. lol Sad.
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