cherrynicoable Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Okay well, this is my story. My boyfriend and I had been dating a year..until he left me for another girl. When we first started, it was so ":love:". He'd always tell me how he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and I was the love of his life. About a month or so ago..he told me about this girl. He's always been the type of guy to be honest with me. He told me he had feelings for this girl. My heart dropped. I asked him if she knew about me and he said no..but how could she not know? The fact that he told me about her and didn't tell her about me was the first sign I was going to be the one to end up hurt. He told me he loved the both of us and b/c I loved him so much I decided to stay. Time passes by and things get worse. I could tell he stopped caring as much Near the end of our relationship he even told me he cared about her more. He ended up breaking up with me and asking if we could be friends a week ago. I told him I couldn't be friends with someone I'm in love with..so about 3 days ago I ended up cutting off all communication with him. We have said our farewell's. I just feel so hurt. The pain is so hard to cope with. Like..how could you leave someone you spent a year with for someone you had only been talking to for a month. It hurts so much b/c I feel that he doesn't really care and he never did fight for me. All the memories we have together. I just can't seem to let it go. He was my first love. I go to sleep and I wake up with a heavy heart. They are already in a relationship. He flaunts her around and seems to treat her so much better than he ever did me. Kind of like how we were when we first started dating, but that "honeymoon phase" is just lasting longer with them. It hurts so much...not only letting him go, but also watching him love someone else. I feel like he just left me standing here alone. I'm just ready to move on. I just want to be happy again. Have any of you dealt with something like this? How do you cope? Any advice/tips or encouraging words? It'd be really helpful.
Reels Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 No perfect solution. Just do whatever makes you happy, try to rediscover what you actually liked, whether its religion, history, animals, entertainment, just anything. Try reading anything that you actually enjoyed. Try developing some habits, that's the only way you can think less about these blunders of life.
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